racheypie666 wrote:
Hopper wrote:
As to autistic influence, I was assessed and diagnosed when I was 31-32, and my dress ('like an Edwardian gentleman', it says in my report) was taken as part of the evidence.
Haha, that is fantastic
Apparently the psychologist doing my assessment compared and consulted with his fellow psych people and, on mentioning how I dress, two of those there were of the opinion that that confirmed the matter.

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Yes, I think I'm similar. It's not about wanting other people to view me as different; I don't think about other people when I pick my outfits. It's about how I want to dress for myself, and psychologically I think it's also a way of coping with my difference. I am different anyway, I am separate, so I just dress for myself. That way I don't mind stares if I get them - I'm not above taking a compliment though
'dress for myself' - yep. I think it helps that I can be properly 'autistic' in terms of being oblivious to others. I'm in my world, in my head. I take pleasure in working out what goes with what, what suits and what doesn't.
I always scan compliments for sarcasm, but I'm taking them more at face value. That said, it can get a bit awkward, like in Asda a few years back:
Cashier: You look very smart.
Me: Oh, uh, thank you.
Cashier: Like a country gent in town for the weekend.
Me: Well.... I'm not.
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Hopper wrote:
I've come to realise I'm going have to start wearing sunglasses a lot more
Hey, just embrace it. I feel pretty cool in mine

plus they form a kind of barrier between you and social interactions should you ever need one.
Oh, I shall

. I plan on buying a few different pairs off ebay, to try and find some that suit and fit best. I have a pair I bought when out this summer because it was TOO DAMN BRIGHT (first time I'd bothered in years, and I had a 'oh, now I get why people wear these!' moment), and they're not too bad, but I find the frame is often in my peripheral vision, and it bugs me.
As to social barrier, it's always handy to have another. I almost always have either my earphones in, and people still try and talk, meaning they have to repeat their initial remark three times over while I fumble for the pause switch. It was usually an observational pleasantry on the weather.
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Of course, it's probably quite a bit more complicated than that.
You know sometimes, between the dames and the horses, I don't even know why I put my hat on.