Is anyone else slightly offended by the name of this site?

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19 Dec 2016, 3:10 am

Arthur used the same analogy.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s9eATBV-_lg


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19 Dec 2016, 3:16 am

A better alien analogy to a lot of our expeiences is alien from another country with a very different culture, not a non human from another planet. No I don't like the title, I don't like the term "Wrong Planet Syndrome". I am very sorry the term is so widely accepted. You do not see other minority groups or people with other conditions comparing themselves to species from other planets. I do feel the near unamimoius acceptence of the term in our community is a symptom of lack of acceptence of ourselves and one reason we are not doing as well as other disadvantaged groups that are advocating that they be treated with respect.

I see a lot of people saying and implying get over it, it is not meant to be taken literally. I am Autistic, I take things more literally then most people, and more literally then nearly every other aspie on this topic it seems. I was born this way. I have gotten over it enough to stay on this site, but tolerence without acceptence is as far as it is going to go.


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19 Dec 2016, 3:18 am

League_Girl wrote:
Arthur used the same analogy.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s9eATBV-_lg


why can't all kids shows be more like arthur?


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19 Dec 2016, 5:24 am

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It's fitting. I found out autistic people don't use the part of the brain when speaking to someone else neurotypicals use. It's the same part neurotypicals use when talking to a pet or object.
No wonder I feel so lonely.

no wonder they talk to me like a pet or object :o
do aspies even make good pets...? I mean I'm defiant as hell to anybody who I feel has ulterior motives....


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19 Dec 2016, 5:40 am

I am on the wrong planet irl, so nope~



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19 Dec 2016, 5:49 am

I love the name. Oliver Sacks wrote An Anthropologist on Mars: Seven Paradoxical Tales An Anthropologist on Mars: Seven Paradoxical Tales about neurological differences, so it seems a common and apt comparison.



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19 Dec 2016, 12:09 pm

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I am a human. I feel like a human. I am not an alien sent from Mars.

Mars? I'm from Zeta Reticuli :P


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19 Dec 2016, 12:35 pm

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Not really, it seems to be a kind of good analogy for the experience of having aspergers...especially if you weren't diagnosed as child and went through life wondering why you were different from everyone else, and much of the time not on the same level like more so than just general personality differences. I remember at one point I thought maybe I literally was an alien...like maybe my parents gave birth to a different child and somehow aliens abducted that one and switched it with me.


This.



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19 Dec 2016, 3:33 pm

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do aspies even make good pets...?


pet my hair wrong and i'll bite you.


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19 Dec 2016, 6:38 pm

I like the name of this site. It relates to the fact that the society and work is designed mainly for NeuroTypicals. Socializing and social skills seems to be a prime factor in nearly all job descriptions. Consistent socializing in work environments seems to be a part of most jobs. There are no systems in our society which are designed to enhance or make use of the great gifts which autistic people have. Thus we are on the wrong planet :) Interestingly enough I heard a theory that 90% of all inventions are made by autistic people.



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19 Dec 2016, 8:57 pm

not really, i feel like i belong to the whole universe :) , so no problem with the idea about being from another planet, that doesn't make me less human.



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20 Dec 2016, 3:53 am

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20 Dec 2016, 4:25 am

I have often thought how interesting it is that many people in the autistic spectrum relate to this being on the 'Wrong Planet'.

I find it rather odd, for a community that for the most part prides itself on the rational mind to so easily succumb to such blind emotional reasoning.

Yes, I understood it's tongue in cheek, yet there really are many here who believe this "them and us" stuff and loose touch with reality.



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20 Dec 2016, 5:53 pm

Scheimaa wrote:
not really, i feel like i belong to the whole universe :).


i noticed that's not a terribly common perspective around here, care to elaborate?

do you mean, you're able to find something to relate to in most places you look? that sounds really positive :)


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21 Dec 2016, 8:33 pm

Kiprobalhato wrote:
Scheimaa wrote:
not really, i feel like i belong to the whole universe :).


i noticed that's not a terribly common perspective around here, care to elaborate?

do you mean, you're able to find something to relate to in most places you look? that sounds really positive :)


I need to say that i am not diagnosed, maybe i don't even have enough symptoms to qualify for the diagnosis - i will never know as long as i live in Egypt -, so maybe it wasn't a good idea to post here.

but i can explain why i feel like i belong to the whole universe, i know that can't be really true in some senses, but when you feel like you don't belong anywhere or that you just don't fit in your culture or any other cultures, that can make you think that you don't really need to tie your self to just one culture or one land, you live in Cairo but that also means that you live in Egypt, Egypt is in Africa, and it's a continent on the earth, the Earth is located in the Solar System .. etc., so to make the long story short as long as you live in Cairo you live in the universe and, that is why i feel like belong to the whole universe.
in that sense i don't need to be like most Egyptian or like most German, i belong to the whole universe anyway so it's okay to be myself, and it's okay to live in a place that make me feel comfortable, i don't really need to die where i was born or where i grow up.

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you're able to find something to relate to in most places you look?


I haven't thought about it like that, but you have a point usually you can find something you like in most cultures or places.



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21 Dec 2016, 8:56 pm

In my opinion: Nope. :lol: I don't dislike nor had offended by it.

This website's name is rather funny, and it sort of fits
For me it's both a literal-feeling thing, and an ironic thing.
Either it's just me, myself, and I between this and that world. Or nope, that's normal for a human, normal thing for an organism, normal thing for a cell if people takes account on literally everything.


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