Starting to resent the label "Aspie?"

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22 May 2007, 4:16 am

The word aspie is patronising.



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22 May 2007, 4:47 am

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I don't like "Aspie" just because it SOUNDS like an insult. I don't know why, but I hate the word.

I don't think so. If I didn't know what it meant I would think it was something soft and cuddly. I am just afraid that as soon as the NT's hear it it will be an insult. We have to try to keep it from them.


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22 May 2007, 5:23 am

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This reminds me of another peeve, pronouncing "asperger's" with "ger's" instead of "jer's"


"Asperger's" is pronounced with "ger's" and not with "jer's"... 8O


I think it depends on your language.

Anyway....I don't like Aspie, it's diminutive. I imagine it came from some mother somewhere..."oh you're my little Aspie" which makes me think of it as an NT term.
As an adult I find it hard to use, I either use AS or Asperger's.



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22 May 2007, 6:03 am

I personally liek the name Aspie. I also like the term Aspergian.



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22 May 2007, 6:39 am

I don't really like it to be honest, doesn't sit right with me for some reason. Asperger's or AS is OK with me.


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22 May 2007, 6:41 am

TheMachine1 wrote:
I agree but lets make it shorter like lets start using one letter. We can not use "A" because it is used in English text alone too often I suggest "P".

I fear that, if you are watching Star Trek, someone may come and say "mind your Ps and Qs" :P



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22 May 2007, 7:34 am

I perfer the term aspergian! Aspie sound dumber than GWB. :D



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22 May 2007, 8:22 am

I don't in theory mind the word aspie, but in practice it often bothers me because of problems with universality. "Aspie" doesn't refer to all kinds of autistic people, yet all kinds of autistic people, in casual conversation, will get called "aspies," therefore sort of erasing the presence of those of us who aren't classified under Asperger's and convincing casual observers that all auties online fall officially under the aspie classification. Which is why I tend to use autie instead, it's a broader term that includes but is not limited to those who are described officially as aspies. (Plus I differentiate less between the categories than most people do.)


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22 May 2007, 8:38 am

It's only a word...
It's easier that typing out 'people with Aspergers' all the time.



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22 May 2007, 11:37 am

Cheerlessleader wrote:
People say that "aspie" isn't a real word as it isn't in the dictionary, but "asperger syndrome" isn't in the dictionary either. Hell, you're lucky if you can find a ten word defenition for autism, let alone asperger's or aspie.


Asperger's Syndrome n. a developmental disorder characterized by social and emotional deficiencies, but accompanied by above average verbal skills and cognitive ability.

*hugs his dictionary and tells it that the bad man was wrong* :wink:



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22 May 2007, 3:41 pm

Aspie WAS invented by some mother somewhere.


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22 May 2007, 6:09 pm

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That would be nice. where can I get one?


You can get one, here. :heart:

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22 May 2007, 6:52 pm

You know, this discussion sounds a lot like the debates some Star Trek fans have over the terms "Trekkie" vs "Trekker/Trekkor"...


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23 May 2007, 1:32 am

I know in some professions (ex. psychologist, SLP, etc.) it is not considered PC to say an "autistic person" or anything like that- you have to say "person with autism"- it's this whole "people first" thing- you're supposed to put the person first. Ex. "person with a hearing impairment" rather than "hearing impaired person". It's supposed to emphasize that the person has a condition, but they are not defined by that condition.



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23 May 2007, 1:33 am

Xenon wrote:
You know, this discussion sounds a lot like the debates some Star Trek fans have over the terms "Trekkie" vs "Trekker/Trekkor"...


Yeah, I never got the problem people have with "Trekkie". I'd refer to myself either way and not be bothered.



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23 May 2007, 1:38 am

I'm Aspergian; I practically think of it as my nationality now (crazy as that may sound).


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