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Have you ever felt lonely before?
Yes. 40%  40%  [ 34 ]
No. 1%  1%  [ 1 ]
All the time. 38%  38%  [ 32 ]
I don't even know what loneliness feels likes. 5%  5%  [ 4 ]
Only occasionally. 15%  15%  [ 13 ]
Total votes : 84

Miranda
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29 May 2007, 12:08 pm

I'm trying to get in touch with him. He has no phone, so it's been hard. I offered him a place to stay, but he told me he'd rather be alone because he hates being around people when he's depressed. He used to have a drug problem (cocaine), so I hope he's not self medicating with that again. I seriouslydoubt he can afford it right now, though.



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29 May 2007, 12:15 pm

Miranda wrote:
I'm trying to get in touch with him. He has no phone, so it's been hard. I offered him a place to stay, but he told me he'd rather be alone because he hates being around people when he's depressed. He used to have a drug problem (cocaine), so I hope he's not self medicating with that again. I seriouslydoubt he can afford it right now, though.


Probably not. I would just hope for the best and say that he'll get through it. I would also hope that he isn't even the slightest bit suicidal right now. I'm sure that it will be ok. He'll get through it and if he can't, then he has you. I think he should see a doctor about his depression. Miranda, if you need any more help or support, then we are always here for you and of course, you can always PM any of us if you want to talk to any of us privately about things.



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29 May 2007, 12:18 pm

Sometimes.


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29 May 2007, 12:19 pm

I am lonely, no friends, no girlfriend, no brain, nothing



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29 May 2007, 12:21 pm

Thanks! I'm feeling okay about it now, but it does get hard sometimes and I occasionally feel like I'll never get over him. It's definitely nice knowing I can send a pm if I need to talk. I just don't want to be a pest; I get that feeling a lot when I'm taking to people in real life about my problems. It's easier online for some reason. Maybe that's a common AS thing.



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29 May 2007, 12:37 pm

Miranda wrote:
Thanks! I'm feeling okay about it now, but it does get hard sometimes and I occasionally feel like I'll never get over him. It's definitely nice knowing I can send a pm if I need to talk. I just don't want to be a pest; I get that feeling a lot when I'm taking to people in real life about my problems. It's easier online for some reason. Maybe that's a common AS thing.


It's more common than you think, believe me! I'll always be here for you or anyone else who wants to talk to me. I'm sorry to hear about your boyfriend. I was once in love with a tomboy who seemed to be alone all the time. I wanted to be friends with her, but she wanted me to go with her to the Homecoming dance. So we went and I made her wear a dress for the first time in a long time. The problem was that I wanted a true relationship and she wanted to get really close to me, especially in front of her friends. Plus, after the dance, she began smoking marijuana and once offered me a cigarette. After that, I did something that I should have never done. I slowly began to ignore her until we just drifted apart. I regret that deeply.

Anyway, feel free to PM me any time you want, if you are willing to be my friend.



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29 May 2007, 12:49 pm

I like being by myself, I'm not sure why. Very rarely I've felt lonely.



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29 May 2007, 2:17 pm

greenblue wrote:
I am lonely, no friends, no girlfriend, no brain, nothing


Greenblue has brain.


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