Are autists less attractive?

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My daughter in law is HF autistic and really beautiful. I have friends who are exceptionally good looking with Aspergers. Others less so. One of my best friends who has Aspergers is a large woman and quite masculine but quite honestly how can anyone be defined as ugly or beautiful? My romantic interest has Aspergers and he is the most beautiful man I have ever seen. Like Michael Angelo's David.

Good people are beautiful to me and unpleasant people less.
I'm nothing to write home about and I am NT.

If I didn't have people looking after me making sure I showered, I'd probably have fungus growing on me.

Ezra probably looks like one of those Greek gods throwing the discus.....

That's true....bathing isn't showering.

Bathing is actually much more thorough than showering, in my book.

Definition of bathing... washing your face in the same water your arse is sitting in.

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I don't mind, I wash my arse more often than my face

It's a subjective call, but to me people who are either clueless and not grounded or grounded in the wrong way such as overly assertive, obviously self centered, hogging the social stage in a way that is utterly clueless or else the person just doesn't care) are basically NOT attractive (to me) in a romantic sense. Plus I am not physically and/or romantically attracted to very over-weight people or people who are (by my perception) formed in a certain way, or, better put, genetically formed in some way that does not jive or does not jell with my innate sense of physical harmony, --this could be autistic or nt or even a man who is very good looking such as a movie star. This is not a thought-out thing for me but basically something to do with genetics. However if a person has something to offer me that I desire, what they have to offer could easily supersede the formation thing, such as if a great wisdom is coming out of his eyes and he could teach me something really profound. Then I might be attracted and that attraction could grow.

Also, relating to my previous comments, people with intense special interests are less likely to pull themselves away from their preoccupation with these interests to do meticulous house cleaning and/or bathing (and this could in some instances include me, though my hands and butt and teeth are always kept very clean and my hair kind of clean, and I keep myself basically odorless in every way). Also, very fat people often cannot wipe their own butts that well: just a fact of physical dynamics imo.