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22 Aug 2019, 8:58 am

I guess this goes back perhaps to the whole idea of girls being able to mimic social situations better than boys.

I was definitely able to get by better in the elementary years, but adulthood was another story. That's when I was diagnosed.


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22 Aug 2019, 8:59 am

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I was "special ed" from nursery school through 5th grades. My mother couldn't pay for the "special school" I went to, so I was placed in a regular public school in 6th grade. I didn't fail academically---but I failed socially. Almost got kicked out in 8th grade. In 9th grade, I was enrolled in a school for "gifted underachievers." I graduated from that school after 12th grade.

if you don't mind, can you describe why they wanted to boot you out?



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22 Aug 2019, 9:02 am

Because I kept on getting thrown out of classes for calling out the answers. Really.

I once threw a fit in math class because I got a 96 instead of a 100 on a test.

I used to react to kids bullying me (on rare occasions) by throwing things at them.

I guess I was a "discipline problem" because I kept on doing the same thing that got me thrown out in the first place.

The guidance counselor saw me drawing a "family tree of Man's descent," and thought I was nuts.



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22 Aug 2019, 9:06 am

^ I think your case kdm1984 clearly illustrates the difficulty in assigning levels. It seems to be based on not how well you do or do not function overall , but whether you have sub areas of difficulty within that .

While level 3 is more obvious . Levels 1 and 2 are not as easy to differentiate. There's no doubt , because of that , level 1s that should be level 2s and vice versa .



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22 Aug 2019, 9:10 am

firemonkey wrote:
^ I think your case kdm1984 clearly illustrates the difficulty in assigning levels. It seems to be based on not how well you do or do not function overall , but whether you have sub areas of difficulty within that .

While level 3 is more obvious . Levels 1 and 2 are not as easy to differentiate. There's no doubt , because of that , level 1s that should be level 2s and vice versa .


Thank you, yes, totally agree!


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22 Aug 2019, 3:01 pm

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low functioning vs high functioning Autism I think are two completely different things one is a disorder( low functioning) and the other (high functioning) is like being gay which is no longer classified as a mental disorder it's just that some people are different. I believe they are two completely different things that were accidentally misclassified what are your thoughts on this subject?


No. First of all I don't particularly like the Low, moderate, and high functioning labels but I will often use them as I haven't found more appropriate wording that doesn't have the same connotations. The low functioning label can be rather demoralizing. While the High functioning label is often used as a way to diminish our struggles, or suggest we don’t have it as hard as typically considered “low-functioning” autistic. To say that the low functioning folk have a disorder while the higher are just 'different" entirely exacerbates that.

Autism itself is a a different brain structure/wiring. So in that sense, yes we are just different but it has zero bearing on our functionality. All the functionality labels are is a way to say how well an Autistic is able to appear 'normal how well we can conform to the world around us on a general basis. And it is general because each individual's functionality can waver from high to low depending on our emotions and environmental stimulants. Your High , low or moderately functioning autistic is not always going to be that. There are times when I am moderate, times when I am low and times where I am high functioning. They are not separate things.


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22 Aug 2019, 3:52 pm

I believe there are functioning labels. We use them all the time on WP, even if we came up with a more 'correct' term for it, everyone still knows what it is we're talking about. There's no escape from the fact that there ARE high-functioning autistic people, like myself. I am the perfect example of a person on the high-functioning end of the spectrum.


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22 Aug 2019, 4:08 pm

I think I am too unique to fit in a catagory!



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22 Aug 2019, 4:26 pm

20 years ago, if you were able to talk, and you were diagnosed with autism, you were considered "high-functioning."

"Rainman" was considered a "very high-functioning" autistic person in the 1988 movie. Today, I would venture a guess that he would be "level 2," at best.



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22 Aug 2019, 4:59 pm

I think I appear to be normal... Though people sometimes seem to stare at me... As in,... Well, I would somehow stand out in a crowd.



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22 Aug 2019, 5:00 pm

If I howl in the subway, people look at me funny :mrgreen:



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22 Aug 2019, 5:06 pm

Yes, but I seem to be looked at funny when I hve not done anything that seems to be unusual... :lol:



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22 Aug 2019, 5:07 pm

I wish I could know you----so I can determine whether that statement is correct.



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22 Aug 2019, 5:13 pm

My youngest brother does impersonations of me sometimes. He thinks I walk and act funny, but I don't see myself as any different to anyone else.



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22 Aug 2019, 5:15 pm

Yeah...my brother used to do that, too.

It's part of sibling rivalry, really.



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22 Aug 2019, 5:18 pm

He is excellent at mimiking people. He is 18 years younger then I am.

Mind you. At the moment I may come accross as a bit drunk as I may stagger a little as I am on the fringes of a partial shutdown this evening. Also have heartburn. :(