MrsPeel wrote:
Yes, the poll says "fight in the wars" - but that was because I couldn't think how to express what I meant.
I'm more interested in whether they were personally involved in the war in the sense of having a threat of death hanging over them, which could have involved being sent overseas to serve, or it could have involved being present in a war zone, or being displaced from home and family by war.
There are no historical records nor accounts that any of my ancestors being a subject of displacement.
Nor involved in anything subject to war.
Likely because their origins as far as I looked are somewhat further away from warzones, actually.
Most of the wars that had occured in my current country are either around the shores, particularly on present major cities.
My ancestors are from the fields, away from the bays. If not that (in my mom's side's case), then in different islands.
Both sides had owned a land, most of which still are to this day, passed to their descendants (which is my todays's grand uncles and grand aunts or cousins few times removed), sometime around before the 1900s.
It's only more recent -- sometime at least a decade after wars, that some of their descendants moved out, settled in different regions and are now homeowners/married into different families.
I don't know.
My own intergenerational issues and family curses do not stem from war nor something like relational nor has a history of victimization/criminalization, but from domestics and household stressors.
Finances and generational poverty more particularly.
Anything else is either to do with natural disasters and bodily flaws, habits and attitudes passed down to descendants that everyone else seem to be a subject to.
But that is so, so common around here.
The country I lived in is a subject to colonialism and invaders.