Irulan wrote:
I wasn't refering to the length of words when writing about "big words". I know that a word doesn't need to be long to be considered "big", such one which isn't generally used by average people. Well, maybe "prudish" isn't part of basic vocabulary but I didn't expect that having used such a word at presence of girls of 16 several years ago, I'd hear: "please, use such words so as we could understand you". Anyway, even if this word isn't used very often, in a normal everyday conversations, it doesn't belong to the category of words like transubstantiation or metampsychosis which can be suspected of being completely unknown for most people. In many cases I have no idea that some words's meaning can remain a secret for majority of people. I tend to assume automatically that each one is equally well read as myself... well, I burn my fingers then and I draw a conclusion that it isn't necessarily true.
I run into that problem as well. In addition, I cannot fathom why they do not understand me! I often am accused of being condescending and sarcastic when I am being sincere. I get sick of constantly going into tons of detail, just so people can comprehend me. This is why I would make a terrible teacher. I do not have the patience to explain things, esp when I cannot identify with people do not understand the idea at hand in the first place!
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