Have you ever wished you could suppress your sex drive?

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see the solution above , Mr. pedo.

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As for the topic at "hand", here's the solution to everyone's problem:

Seconded. You may have P-OCD which is a very common form of OCD: fear of being a pedophile and starting to really believe you are one. I would discuss this with a professional if the problem is not short-lived.

I don't think I've ever had a "drive". I have taken Zoloft for several years, but even when I'm not taking it, I don't feel any attraction to people. Sometimes I wish I did (to relieve loneliness), but it would probably just get in the way

Also, I tend to tire of people, or outgrow them, or something. I would get along better if I was a guy, because society actually seems to condone the "Love 'em and Leave 'em" mentality, when done by a male. Even in friendships, I find that I put people under a microscope, and after I've thoroughly dissected them, (mentally) I get bored and want to move on. Often, they do not.

Paxil. Seriously.

Good fortune,

- Icarus walks the line...

As a matter of fact, yes. It would make me much more efficient in pursuing my goals to rid myself of biological distractions.

But that doesn't make any sense, I never felt a fear like that. Ever since I was a kid I was like the only guy in the world who didn't get my panties in a twist over hearing about pedos and stuff, I didn't see what was the big deal. I am the last guy to ever fear being one.

I'll look into that, but the only thing I ever heard of that was like that had serious side effects, like death. I think it was something to keep you from getting erections, so maybe its different.

I would like to sometimes if only to not spend so much time/money on porn sites

Paxil, especially in higher doses, can really kill the libido, if that's something you think might help you; it's used to treat social anxiety and depression of course, but it is also used to treat pre-mature ejaculation; one can still get erections, but one also becomes much less interested in such things. It's a braincandy so it'll also muck with your brain chemistry in strange ways that may or may not be well for you; it's also a b***h to get off of; but it sounds like you're in desperate times, so it may be worth a shot, or at least worth asking your doc about.

May your demons fall before you...

Good fortune,

- Icarus has a good share of demons also...

That made me laugh harder than it should have.

Yeah, some days I wish I could turn off my sex drive just so I don't need that constant reminder on how badly I need a girlfriend.

I socially ret*d. Also most people would likely think I'm just sad loving my video games way to much. They're my life. I'm doomed to never having a companion never mind a lover.

I know you hear the phrase cat lady but how bout cat man Aw I'm gonna die alone I know it.

I think any possible downside would probably be worth it. The only problem is getting it without letting my dad know. I'm 18 now so I shouldn't need my parents to get it, maybe, but I would just never be able to get it without letting my dad know why I need it. I don't drive and I don't have money or insurance of my own, how in the hell would I be able to sneak it around my dad?

May i just say that i used to take paxil and you should seriously reconsider. That drug messed me up more in the long run. I couldn't sleep, i couldn't eat, i seriously looked at everybody else and actually considered them to be sex-driven monkeys...

What i suggest is going out and starting to do things to make yourself feel better about your current situation. Sure, your autistic in a way. That may make your life miserable, but, there is hope. Physiotherapy will help motivate you in a new way. Start jogging, weight-lifting, shopping for new clothes. Get a haircut, wear deodorant that doesn't burn your armpits, take a breath-mint. Stop smoking. Doing drugs!?! F'N quit!! ! I used to be YOU!

Now, I know i am attractive. I didn't. I had to date/screw many people to find out that i can be interesting, if only for a while even. So many of my mates told me that i was hot, and i couldn't see it! It takes a while! Get out there, don't drug yourself. Build up your image, even if you don't have one thusfar!! If you are too shy or quiet, and unable to make intelligent conversation at someone else's level, it's okay. Because you will be there with them, trying to have a good time, so what, you had a tic problem; it's okay. They will shrug it off later when you perform oral on them like a convict just getting out of jail. If you suck at that, keep trying!! I'm a 28 year old gay man with many complexes, tics, weird expressions, i make horrible moans, groans, and lick my lips constantly. But there are many dudes that want my sausage!! Seriously, i'm not saying go gay, just stop thinking about it, and DO SOMETHING!! !

I don't take any drugs and I don't drink and I never did and I never will, so don't assume I'm some junkie, I was just inquiring into this thing he mentioned, but as I suspected, it's probably not worth it. I also think it wouldn't have the desired effect on me, which is not to suppress my sex drive, but my attraction for anyone. I know there is no "cure" for pedophilia and I can't just take a pill to be attracted to older women instead, but it would be great if I wasn't attracted physically or sexually or in any way to anybody.
All my physical problems are very restricting, but I still like to go out walking, no matter how much it hurts. I'm gonna have a job soon, working at night because I am kinda nocturnal, and I like to walk down to this place to get these really good tacos, but the one thing that always keeps my mind free of bad thoughts is videogames. People say I should get out and do something, but all I want to do is feel good and keep bad thoughts out of my head, and videogames just do that better than anything else for me.
I know I am attractive, I call myself a sexy beast like every other day, I look at myself in the mirror and I am just stunned by my good looks, so I am either beautiful as hell or just very conceited.
But all the rest of the stuff you said here, you are starting to concern me. Did you forget I was a pedophile or are you saying I should go out and prey on little girls?

Reconsider what? Looking into it? I cannot disagree with what you say here. Paxil is some SERIOUS braincandy. I do not recommend it lightly. As I mentioned, "It's a braincandy so it'll also muck with your brain chemistry in strange ways that may or may not be well for you; it's also a b***h to get off of..." I speak from experience also. But...


...have you read through Yog-Sothoth's posts? Do you know the issues he is struggling with? I do not think exercise is something that is going to help him. Yes, Paxil is a drastic, tricky thing. But in light of Yog-Sothoth's struggles, I maintain what I said; it is something worth considering. Exercsise isn't going to help him; once again, I speak from experience. I can't say that Paxil will fix him either, or that it might not suck; but it is worthy of consideration; he was looking for the opposite of Viagra, remember? Why was that?

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I dunno, my friend... Paxil is also used to treat depression; you could tell you dad that it is for that, maybe (don't all teenagers suffer from that these days? )? I recommend being honest with your doctor, though I do not know how much you trust him/her. It was just a suggestion, though. I'm not sure what can help you, just that you asked for the "opposite of Viagra", and Paxil honestly sprung to mind... I do not presume to judge you on this or anything; just trying to help, to offer suggestions to consider.

The smartass in me wants to say, if you happen to be attracted to girls half your age, just wait until you my age (mid 30's), and then go after 18 year olds, like I do. If only thing were so simple. Once again, I wish you the best in your struggles...

Good fortune,

- Icarus refrains from talking about his age preferences...