Indecisiveness

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When it comes to simple tasks like "what do you want to eat" I pause and have to think about it.

Then of course "how much of this do you want" My answer is always the same. Medium.

When it comes to planning, I do that. Sometimes I prefer to write it down but for series of events that need to be done, I give a preview of the plans outloud.

When it comes to remembering shopping items. I forget alot of things without lists. I feel lost and confused at stores. Picking up several items, turning all the way back around to put them back on the shelf.

This is where I get caught in what appears to be "passive", over accomodating", "shy" etc. When really, I am nothing like that.

It used to be that I couldn't even decide about what to order when out and when I would ask the other person to choose for me, it often looked quite alot like a controlling relationship to onlookers.

I am getting a little better, but still tend to rely on others thoughts, opinions & decisions before going ahead with my own.

Now, if it to do with something that I am particularly interested in, well then...that is a whole other story