Tortuga wrote:
I read a study once that said that 40% of aspergers/HFA males will get married. I researched this topic to get an insight on my son's future.
You say that you don't know what love is. Maybe you are too young or relationships really aren't a priority for you. Men do not get as emotionally invested in relationships, like women do. Many NTs don't love women or want to get married, or want to get married any time soon.
Are you leaving your girlfriends or are they leaving you?
Lets just say girls I like are about 100 times easier to ask out (thats all guts) but then to keep up with long-term relationship is the hardest thing to fake ever cuz a girlfriend is about 10 times more complicated then your average friend or best friend even, now imagine a AS person who can barely keep a tight knit group of friends TRYin to maintain a relationship with a girl who has all sorts of needs, yeah its pretty mcuh impossible they wanna talk on the phone an all these rules that even regular guys dont know about a AS person iN TODAYs world is so doomed in relationships its not even funny and i find this really hard to believe that 40% of AS/AT get married when social stuff is there problem an relationships are built almost entirely on social skills an communication one of the biggest difficulties of people who hve this
so yeah they do (NT) do end up ending it
sadly they thought i was someone (NT) that im not and they soon find out the truth after a few weeks or so
yes there is girls who can be your friend and maybe into you more then youa re into them but those are not the ones i like to go after romantically anyway so that has not worked out going that route either