asplanet wrote:
Ana54 Quote: Asplanet, did you really? Smile
Yes I did
really love to see his response.
I do know a few people who have seen him, can not say who, but they have told me he really helped them.
No one can always get everything right and feel he is growing and learning like the rest of us, as there has been so many changes just over the last few years even...
We are not always the only ones to suffer, being diagnosed has really helped my husband understand me..
I didn't mean to imply spouses of spectrum people are never hurt by spectrum people, it's just that there is a noisy group of women who seem like sociopaths to me. They marry a guy and then blame him for every single problem they have. Like I said, it's
very convenient.
These women do the asking, most of the time, they pick the guy out, ask him to marry her and then assume the martyr's stance from then on. I've seen it. And at one point, it looked to me like Attwood was giving these awful whining women "aid and comfort" while not repeating what he said to the women to the AS community. It looked very two faced, to me.
I also noted that this was a few years ago, maybe Attwood has decided not to have two stories about what AS people are like, one for the Aspies, "You guys are great!" and one for the wives, "Oh, my, they can really be AWFUL, it's true."
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