Do You Need To Be Held?

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yeah

now i want to be held

i guess ill have to wait till tomorrow morning for mom to come get me for breakfast

grr i wish i had my powerchair.. then i could just go in there and get in her lap hehe

Sorry if I'm being be a pig about this, but I have no desire to touch anyone unless they're someone that I would hypothetically like to have sex with. And since my "attempt", arousal only causes pain, making said hypothetical impossible. Therefore, I'd avoid touching anyone ever again if I could. I find body heat so repulsive that I even hate sitting where someone else has just been. I used to sleep with my used bath towel.

I've always wanted to have sex since puberty, but my machine envy will always exist as intellectual desire out of my belief that I never will get to have sex, and my contempt for our species.

are you talking about wrapping yourself up like a mummy? i LOVE that.

if only i were still able to do that... damn movement disorders...

I'd like someone to be in my apartment to hold me, in a non-sexual way.

aww... id love someone to hold me too... i know... why dont you fly here and move in with me

as long as you like lots of clingy hugs your fine with me... otherwise be warned, i am very clingy...

I love clingy hugs. :O)

god i wish i could hug you right now and not let go for a long time

its 12:00 AM here and i still cant fall asleep due to the fact that i have no one or nothing to get me to calm down.. and its my sensory issues that dont let me calm down deciduously...

Yup

Strapples, CockneyRebel,

I'll hold you two! Great big tight holds. great big hugs.

When I make lots of money you guy can come live with me every one can have there own unit. And when ever any one need to be held they can just go down the hall and knock on doors and they would get held.


And Strapples we can put in lots of fun ramps for you to ride around on. Power chair playground Called rampground.

And for CockneyRebel we will put in lots of shelves for all your busses. And track for you to run your busses around. We'll call it busaround playground

Last edited by Soon on 08 Feb 2008, 1:24 am, edited 1 time in total.

Awww your son sounds cute. YEs i would love to be held, especially tight, loooove bear hugs!

Yes. Although I thought a trait of aspies was the repulsivity to the touch...?
I had that when I was little - didn't like to be touched, but now I would be happy if I got hugged all day.

Being held is something I adore, and always have. Unfortunately since I'm not a little kid anymore, Dad won't hold me for very long, and Mum has never been close enough to me, nor does she have time.

But regardless, it is something I crave. but I'm not close enough to anyone at the moment to have that desire fulfilled. (I don't want to just randomly go up and hug people and not let go. That would just be weird) But I remember when I was little, I'd sit on Dad's lep and just be hugged for up to 20 mins on end. 'Till he had to go do something or his leg got sore. I've always wondered if it's just basic hyperaffectionism maybe?

but your profile pic says "hugs" on it

I honestly don't know.

that stereotype is garbage... although it is COMMON for aspies to not like touch there is a good deal of aspies / pdd-nos people with sensory integration disorders who MUST be touched...

/touch Strapples

(thats a UNIX joke )