I have APD and HFA (well, they can't conclusively say I have APD because I have HFA, but whatever, it's all semantics - I have both).
I am constantly cracking people up at work because I hear things wrong or transpose words. I officially have my own language I now just substitute "thingy" for any word loss - imagine the confusion! For example, "I brought my thingy to work today" gets me several confused looks until I show them the object or describe it lol We all work in cubies (cubicles) and so I can't read anyone's lips. I either have them write down what they want me to do or e-mail it to me. Works 100% easier.
It's very frustrating with the phone - if it's silent, I'm fine but, if there's someone talking in the background, I might as well be deaf I discovered unlimited texting and now communicate with friends and family either through text or through online. I think online technology with help the APD person more than any such technology invented so far (well, supposedly, there's also the FM system).
I SO want an FM system but they're very expensive - it's not fair! According to my audiologist, I should be in CAPD therapy and having an FM system but am broke and I don't qualify for any programs because I'm not "disabled enough" or I make too much (before taxes, chah!).
My co-workers are all saying I should write a book about APD and the things I mishear. I don't think there's any books geared towards this subject?
Seriously, having HFA and APD is a pain in the foot - but I use humor to make it easier. I just wish live conversations weren't such a chore!
- Serenity
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"Two roads diverged in a wood, and I?
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference." Robert Frost