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09 Aug 2008, 2:01 pm

You're not getting more stupid - that much is obvious from your articulations regarding the condition.

What you are developing is a combination of fatigue and anxiety, though not the kind of "anxiety" doctors often suggest AS/Autism people suffer from whenever they complain of any kind of illness.

What you're clearly dealing with is the same kind of self-fulfilling problem that people talk about in terms of impotence - you've got no standard by which to truly judge your intellect, so you're developing performance anxiety and that's interfering with your ability to actually accomplish the task of reasoned thought.

Consider above all else: the fact that you recognize a problem is proof you're not losing your intelligenc.e


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09 Aug 2008, 2:21 pm

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I am losing my intelligence...
I have felt it escalating for many months now. First I noticed that I misunderstood things more often than usual, and I needed more detailed explanations than usual. My comprehention and perception skills and my ability to reason seemed to be diminishing. Now I have noticed that my reading skills are getting worse. I have to read sentences and parts of sentences several times before I take in what I've read (I used to only need to do that once or twice). This happens the most when I'm reading something that I wrote (including this post). I read it to make sure it makes sense, and to check for mistakes. And when it comes to whether or not my post makes sense, I always have doubts.
I'll be starting Grade 12 in a month, and after that it's University. But not if I keep getting "stupider". It is very important that I regain what I've lost. Soon.

What (do you think) is going on and what can I do about it?

Classic stress symptoms.

You need to touch base again.

For most Aspies, that means spending a number of days alone .... and I MEAN alone, as in several days and several nights in your own home doing ONLY what pleases you.

The chief source of stress for most Aspies is social contact.
Removing it allows them to return to basal stress levels.

It's every bit as simple as that.

Chronic stress leads to withdrawal and shutdown, to the point that it's possible to become almost totally dysfunctional regardless of how much effort is put in.

Pushing yourself may seem laudable, but for Aspies it's actually counter-productive because they're having to push themselves to achieve reasonable function, all the time, anyway.

When this kind of thing happens to you, you need to take your foot well and truly OFF the gas until such time as good functionality returns.

And as much as anyone may hate it, it's the only thing that works.
It's a physical constraint that can't be altered.

Take some time for you to become yourself again.
I have spent a lot of my summer in my room at my computer, writing in forums and watching YouTube videos. And though what I've been doing interests me, all summer I've wanted to actually accomplish something or go somewhere. But I haven't been able to bring myself to do it very much.
I have had to interact with family members on a daily basis and there have been a few arguments. I also have chores, which I don't like and they probably give me some stress, but there's no way I can refuse to do chores... that would lead to a stressful argument that would end with me doing the chores anyway.



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09 Aug 2008, 2:26 pm

Spymunk wrote:
You're not getting more stupid - that much is obvious from your articulations regarding the condition.

What you are developing is a combination of fatigue and anxiety, though not the kind of "anxiety" doctors often suggest AS/Autism people suffer from whenever they complain of any kind of illness.

What you're clearly dealing with is the same kind of self-fulfilling problem that people talk about in terms of impotence - you've got no standard by which to truly judge your intellect, so you're developing performance anxiety and that's interfering with your ability to actually accomplish the task of reasoned thought.

Consider above all else: the fact that you recognize a problem is proof you're not losing your intelligenc.e
Okay. But what do I do about it?



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09 Aug 2008, 2:33 pm

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I have spent a lot of my summer in my room at my computer, writing in forums and watching YouTube videos. And though what I've been doing interests me, I've wanted to actually accomplish something all summer. I have had to interect with family members on a daily basis and there have been a few arguments. I also have chores, which I don't like and they probably give me some stress, but there's no way I refuse to do chores...

Well if it's not stress, then it's possibly cabin fever.

1. - Try getting out on a regular basis.

2. - Exercise. Anaerobic/strength exercise is best - it releases large amounts of growth hormone ... nature's own reparative wonder drug - and it also provides free calorie burn wherein your body burns fat when you're idle.

3. - Eat as natural as you can - fruit for carbs, veg for fibre, nuts for protein and bread for enjoyment. It's cheap, avoids the blood-sugar roller-coaster of fatigue and hunger, means you never feel indefinibly 'crap' and clears your skin in days.

As the Romans used to say : In copore sans, mens sanis .... healthy mind in a healthy body.

Mental health depends on maintaining a healthy body.

And never forget - laughter is THE BEST medicine, so don't take anything too seriously .... half of what happens to you is down to chance anyway.



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09 Aug 2008, 2:44 pm

Oh, and if you're really serious about kicking an internet addiction - stand up to compute ... it's amazing how much more active you'll be - plus you'll only compute when it's sufficiently necessary.

Try to treat your internet time as a self-reward for things you know you need to be doing to maintain family relations and a stake in this world.

Aspies are massively susceptible to internet addiction, so you have to fight it any way you can.
Stick to using it for learning and emotional respite from the harshities of life - not entertainment and gaming ... that way lies lost time and life sure doesn't last long.
You don't want to look back on an empty life spent at a computer (unless you're getting paid vast sums to do so, of course).



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09 Aug 2008, 3:36 pm

Well, my first thought was:
It's August! What do you need a brain for? Take a well-earned brake while you can. I forget what 12th grade was like, but I imagine it will be stressful. Go to the beach. Read. Chill.

My second thought was:
Maybe hanging around the house is stressful because these are the very people who know best how to push your buttons?

This one makes sense:

Inventor wrote:
Well puppy, the way it is, you grow into your feet.


But I think I like this one the best:
-JR wrote:
Indulge in your interests my friend, take them as far as your mind will let you...
I figured this just meant to have fun.



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09 Aug 2008, 4:10 pm

I would like to thank everyone for their advice.
...and no MemberSix, I'm not serious about quitting my internet addiction. I do this because I like to do it. But I do plan to do it a bit less. I need other hobbies. Walking would be a good idea.



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09 Aug 2008, 4:48 pm

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I would like to thank everyone for their advice.
...and no MemberSix, I'm not serious about quitting my internet addiction.

Spoken like a man who has forever to live.
Guess we were all like that once.
It's still weird to hear someone say they don't want to quit internet addiction.

The internet is not intrinsically life-enhancing.
It's neither intrinsically profitable, nor intrinsically prospect enhancing.

If you see it for what it is, it makes the absurdity of investing any time in it abundantly clear.
What you might aim for is wanting to kick it.



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09 Aug 2008, 5:01 pm

I didn't get that one at first.

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Stick to using it for learning and emotional respite from the harshities of life - not entertainment and gaming...

Lately, that's all I've been using it for.
Personally, I do find it to be "intrinsically life-enhancing."
I see it exactly for what it is: the entire accumulated knowledge of the human race you can now fit in your pocket.
Well, maybe it's not there yet, but it's getting pretty close.

Then again, walking the dog might be a good idea.
He needs to check his pee-mail once in a while, too.



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09 Aug 2008, 5:14 pm

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Lately, that's all I've been using it for.
Personally, I do find it to be "intrinsically life-enhancing."

It's meeting your hunger for knowledge and comfort (not sure about the YouTube bit though) - and that really is a great thing, especially to an Aspie.
But life-enhancing is achieving financial security, finding love or gaining insightful new experiences in the real world.



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09 Aug 2008, 5:20 pm

Been there, done that, it didn't work.
I have plenty of insightful OLD experiences to be re-examined.
I need to recalculate the whole thing, so that I can
achieve financial security and all that good stuff.



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09 Aug 2008, 5:24 pm

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Been there, done that, it didn't work.
I have plenty of insightful OLD experiences to be re-examined.
I need to recalculate the whole thing, so that I can
achieve financial security and all that good stuff.

Sorry, I thought you were the OP.
It was him I thought I was addressing with my remarks.

I appear to be conversing with an interloper. ;)



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10 Aug 2008, 8:27 pm

I have something to add. I find myself looking up the definitions of words that I've already looked up the definitions of, and that I have already come to understand the meaning of. I find this necessary sometimes so that I am able to make sense of a sentence that I read. I may understand what all the words mean, but if certain words are used together I need to examine both words' definitions. Sometimes I check definitions just to make sure that I remember the definitions correctly. I seem to have lost the brain power to put a series of words with multiple and/or complex definitions together to form one message. I need to break things down and put the pieces together slowly in order to fully "grasp" what is written.



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12 Aug 2008, 4:04 pm

The advice that I've gotten so far is probably going to be helpful, but does anybody have a different opinion or anything to add to an existing theory or suggestion?



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13 Aug 2008, 2:50 pm

Isn't it obvious that I'm trying to keep this thread from dying?
I'm still having the same problem I had when I started this. I've gotten more sleep and it's gotten a little better, but I haven't tried anything else yet...



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13 Aug 2008, 7:51 pm

If you still think there's a problem after all this, maybe you should check it out.
MRI, cat scan, whatever they do when they take you seriously.
You're a young adult, you're articulate...
I admit that I shrugged it off at first, but you know what you feel.
What kinds of tests have you had in the past? IQ test?
Any objective way of measuring and comparing the past to the present.

Unfortunately, at 17, I don't know how you can do it without your parents.
You probably can't sneak off to the doctor and pay the co-pay yourself.


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