"Romantically Interested" Troll

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Did anyone get any "from" me!! !!

mine said vetivert...i is special

I got iamlucille!

I'm glad everyone seems to be taking this so well.

Sending the PMs were not cute or funny. Some people got hurt. It was a serious misstep.


BeeBee

I got KingdomOfRats was romantically interested in Me. edward was the one sent it to Me about KingdomOfRats that was interested in Me.

don't hold your breath, abominable.

anyway, the person has been spoken to again, and the matter is closed, unless it happens again. if it does so, please contact me or another of the mods immediately.

thanks.

Vivi
(as Mod)

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not true, ante - we all do things when we're hurt, angry, upset or threatened. if anyone claims they don't make mistakes.. well, they're either fibbing or deluded. good grief, man, even I make mistakes, for heaven's sake!

so, rather than think of yourself as unredeemable, accept you've done something wrong, and learn from it.

i won't speak for anyone else here, but i accept you. what you did was thoughtless and annoying, but you're not just what you do (otherwise i'd be like the picture of dorian gray, let's face it). if you're lashing out cos you're hurt, talk about it. make this incident the start of you trying to work with the horror of being alive, rather than another reason to lash out.

as you said, people here were sad that you said you were leaving. hold that thought.

Vivi

Whoa.



I don't really care how bad you are. . . . . .. . .its not like you assaulted my grandmother or anything. Frankly, I found the entire "Romantic Interest" thing one of the most hilarious things I've seen in a while. . . . . .but I do understand that others could be hurt by it.

I'm kinda speechless at the moment.

Ante,

I'm not complaining about you but the fact that you hurt some of us.

As Vivi said, if you are hurt, talk to us about that, don't hurt others.

BeeBee

Someone named edward said Sean asked me to tell you Sean is interested in you. I think I want to throw up. Its not a good idea to date on the internet.

Ante

My friend if You need somebody to talk to pm Me okay. You need to quit pushing people away that care for You. Then maybe You well see that that people do care for You My friend then.

Now we have an explanation..

Ante,have you ever had councilling for the all the bullying you have had before?


I also know what it is like,and one of the lasting side effects of bullying is low confidence/self worth.
Bullies do not deserve the satisfaction of their abuse causing lasting damage,it's disgusting how many of us it still affects.
I have found some "closure" from speaking to those who used to bully me,one ex bully was even desperate to be my mate when she came with one of the volunteers on my course to a certificate giving ceremony from the princes' trust,some bullies genuinely do mature and it could be worth speaking to them to get closure on past life experiences.

As for bullying in college,hope it hasn't stopped you from more education,there's always going to be morons in college but they are in the minority,and should be reported-colleges are a lot more stricter when it comes to bullying than schools.
What town do you live in?

Ante, I'm familiar with pushing people away so that you don't have to face the possibility that they will push you away.

You are a friend. Friends are not always perfect, but we forgive them, just as we hope they will forgive our mistakes. I hope the mods take that into consideration when they look at your case.

Remember an apology can do wonders.

well here's something you didn't know, ante: a few days ago i suggested to robertn (coincidentally, the person you said was my secret admirer) that he should contact you because i was concerned about you. i didn't try to contact you myself because i'm not very good at comforting people and i didn't want to risk making someone, who was already feeling low, feel worse.

i was p****d off at you when i first found out that i'd been tricked, but after a few minutes, i started to see the funny side and i don't hold any grudges against you. one of the most important lessons i learned in life is that people don't stay angry forever. what may have caused someone to shout or lash out at you in the past will not make them feel that way forever.

by the way, the post you did as yellowbelliedpooh was fantastic! it had me grinning like a maniac for an entire afternoon! so if that is an example of the genius you are capable of then i am willing to take the pleasure with the pain!