How can a good looking guy make himself unattractive?

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Don't censor your thoughts, and speak the complete truth about everything. You'll find that some people will probably still like you, but the majority won't.

If you do this, you'll know what it's like to have Asperger's [in regards to the social problems].

Yes. clothes and hair are the key!

Many of us could look nice if we wanted, but I think it's a rally weird part of us that wants to be able to be attractive, but wants to go unnoticed most of the time. Unnoticed is not the same thing as ugly. I don't know anyone that wants to be ugly.

Let your beard grow, wear old ragged clothes, fake glasses.......look dorky. I love dorks, but I see most women do not

Dorky glasses, baggy unlaundered clothes, don't shave regularly, don't get regular haircuts and don't comb your hair.

If it gets to the 'chatting stage', you can always tell the ladies that you're irretrievably gay. They'll give up soon enough.

Grow a long wispy beard, shave the top of your head (not necessary if already balding) comb the wispy beard over the top of your head to make a very nice beard combover. Ingenius!

I think I do this, stay fat to be less attractive. I am still attractive though, or pretty, but the idea of losing weight bothers me because I know I would be even prettier. I once lost about 50 pounds and some guy where I worked at the time was all like "Wowza! You're looking good!"

How terribly awkward!

Then I started noticing more and more "looks" and more men started talking to me and with my social awkwardness and oddness they then got a "she's weird" look. I was rather uncomfortable with it all so I started putting the weight back on because I don't get as much attention that way.

I'm still attractive though and for those who do pay attention to me, I just keep the talk real short and ignore them. They go away more quickly when you're overweight. However, I like the wedding band suggestion. I have lost some weight lately and if I keep it up then one day I'm just going to go into work and surprise! I'll be married...but choose to keep my own last name and no, they can't meet my husband, he's very shy. His name? Ummm...
Oh well, I still like the idea. I could pull it off since I don't talk much anyway.

Loose the weight, buff up. Meanwhile develop an ego and a horrible attitude. That should help anyway.

Don't mess up your health for other people. Seriously. Work out. Be smart. Be moral and kind. THen dress like a homeless person. It works for me. I look like trash most the time, but if I have to I can spiff up.

Other people who are so shallow as to only notice you when you are perfect are not worth your making yourself unhealthy over. Quite the opposite. Be buff and kind and nice under a package of sloppiness. Like the Secret Milionaire.