glider18 wrote:
Heartcooksbrain wrote:
some people, but I doubt they'd want to meet me..
They would want to meet you---as much as you would want to meet them.
Let's think about this possiblity for a minute.
Suppose we did have this WrongPlanet get together. Think of all the people you enjoy posting with. Now imagine them in real life, and not just by an avatar and typed words. Would these people be who you expected? What would you say to them? Would you feel comfortable speaking face to face to them in real life?
I hope the answer is that we would want to share our thoughts with each other just as we have here in the WrongPlanet. I would hope we would feel comfortable with each other. But I admit, it would be strange in real life wouldn't it?
Would these people really act the way you think they would---or have we formed stereotypes of them based on our lack of social reading?
With all these questions, I would love to meet all of you that I have communicated with since I joined the WrongPlanet last November. I have learned more about my autism here than what any doctor could have told me.
I too would like to meet just about everyone I've communicated with on here. Eh, I won't go into it, but I am very negatively self analytical in my head. I'm sure that's nothing new for a lot of us. Sadly, I am limited on profit and would only be able to meet the people in the state of Washington. But if anyone wants to meet up I would gladly come! I have a mindset of someone with AS, but social traits seem to be NT as I gain comfort with others. So basically, I am somewhat talkative and because I know how hard it is for people like us I am very understanding and I don't judge. err, ramble on I guess..
Thanks for the talk, Glider.
I'm not a great planner for events, but I posted up in a meet up thread previously with no response. If anyone wants to meet up some time in WA, preferrably Spokane, WA, why not manitoe park? It's a great public place. Safe, public, free and we could always walk to other places for a cup of joe, or whatever else sounds interesting.