I failed eHarmony. :P

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what i noticed about eharmoney is that even i could join it?? minimum age is 13.

lol when i was 15 i created a fake name for that site or was it lavalife can't remember i prank someone to think i like him, amazing how i didn't have to put up a pic fake or real what a loser hahaha probably a stupid nt. or something. i did it for 2 days then got board.

I failed too. What a crummy site.

Failed.
I knew I would, I'm not religious for starters and I checked the highest number for "liberal", they probably don't like that there

I went there once just to see what all the hoopla was about. I saw how long the questionnaire was and left. Never bothered to try it again.

Probably a good thing too. I'm sure I would have failed and gone on a homicidal rampage afterward.

I have never tried eharmony and I don't have to worry about passing the test because I am already married.

I got the exact same message as the OP got back when I tried it over 4 years ago. I thought something was wrong with me since their you know great system of matches couldnt find me a match but Im glad they didnt match me up because then I would of never looked on match.com again and I wouldnt of found my soulmate of over 4 years.

They are not as successful as they make themselves out to be. Have a look at this article.

Thanks, Fuzzy! If I were thinking about joining one of those sites, that link would make me think twice. I am cynical about dating services, anyway.

I never paid for dating sites nor ever joined them. Where I used to be, it was a free site and then they started to change it and limit it for free membership. Then you could only send ten PMs a day and it was more limited. Then met my husband and I canceled my membership and last time I heard, you were only allowed to send one PM a day now.

Those matchmaker sites are more scam than anything else. Even if you met someone with similar interests, there is no guarantee it will result in a long-term relationship.

I had two matches in the entire continent, One in NY and the other in TX, both were nothing like me at all so it is a waste of time.

They are unable to match me either...

You are best described as:
Nice site LOL (im being sarcastic)..
this is what it said about me, it really sounds horrid

"CONSISTENTLY TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF


Words that describe you:
•Uncompromising
•Frank
•Astute
•Critical
•Empirical
•Tough
•Discerning
•Sceptical
•Shrewd "

Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward You
Your emphasis on personal independence and personal responsibility may seem to lack in compassion to some people. Undoubtedly you have encountered people who feel this way toward you. And some may find you to be rather selfish. You do stay focused on your own life, take responsibility for your own problems, and are not always moved by situations in which some people think some action is required. That is part of you and your basic beliefs about life. And some people will inevitably want you to be different, but that is simply not who you are.


Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You
You're true to your beliefs and you hold yourself to the same expectations as you do with others. You are critical and tough with yourself, which gives you a consistency when you are critical and tough with others. And even when others don't agree with you, people are likely to admire your frankness. You say what you believe, even if what you believe runs counter to the motives and beliefs of others.

And you keep reminding people of two things that few people can argue with, even if they don't believe in them with your single-mindedness. Personal independence and personal responsibility matter to most people, and even the very compassionate admit that sometimes their hearts get in the way of what their heads know, which is to say that people should take care of themselves whenever they are able to do so. You remind people of this, in the honest way you live your own life and in the ways in which you respond, and don't respond, to other people

................

Does this have an Aspie sound to it all

My report had completely false information on it when I submitted it, nothing in the report sounded like me except the Extroversion category.

You are best described as:
TAKING CARE OF OTHERS AND TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF

Words that describe you:
* Fair * Considered * Collaborative
* Responsive * Sensible * Diplomatic
* Contemplative * Indulgent * Rational

On the Openness Dimension you are:
SOMETIMES CURIOUS, SOMETIMES CONTENT

Words that describe you:
* Accepting * Flexible * Educated
* Self-aware * Middle-of-the-road * Proper
* Distinctive * Indecisive * Adaptable

On Emotional Stability you are:
STEADY

Words that describe you:
* Relaxed * Even * Unwavering
* Constant * Certain * Together
* Cool * Detached * Tranquil

Your approach toward your obligations is:
FOCUSED AND FLEXIBLE

Words that describe you:
* Casual * Informal * Compliant
* Reliable * Organized * Solid
* Dependable * Uncommitted * Genuine

When it comes to Extraversion you are:
RESERVED

Words that describe you:
* Thoughtful * Modest * Reflective
* Private * Introverted * Careful
* Restrained * Meditative