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Marcia
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18 Feb 2009, 7:42 pm

So sorry to hear about your mother. :(

Take care.



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18 Feb 2009, 8:31 pm

Thank you Marcia.


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18 Feb 2009, 8:41 pm

sorry to hear about your mom. hope you'll be okay.



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20 Feb 2009, 3:57 pm

Thank you ptown!


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20 Feb 2009, 7:21 pm

Acacia wrote:
Greentea wrote:
He yelled and yelled on the phone until I hang up, then came and tried to pull down my apt. door and threatened me if I didn't open the door.

Uh, yeah. That's illegal. You've got a lunatic on your hands. It's not OK to just go around pulling down other people's doors(?) and threatening them, whether for acutal or imaginary (which is what this one sounds like) reasons. Inform the police (whether or not they listen). If you have the capability, keep some video and audio recording devices around. If he calls back, record what he says. If he shows up, record that. Create evidence against this guy. You've tried being rational and he is obviously not going to respond rationally.

I'm sorry you are having to deal with this garbage.


I think this is great advice. You need evidence.

I recently bought some dashboard cameras for my car. I used Brickhouse security. When I was looking around their website, I noticed that they have a lot of security products. You might try looking around on their website to see what they have that would help you gather evidence.

I definitely think you're doing the right thing to contact the police. Be careful -- this guy could be really dangerous. Be extra careful about going out alone at night, for example.

I hope this helps.