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Ephemerella? She can appear abrasive but after I started replying to her posts she started replying to mine and she seems cool. You have to get to know her better.

Well, Abangyarudo, I guess I can tell who has still not gotten laid since that blow-up in the Dating & Love forum.

You should really let this drop. It's not healthy for you. The resentment that the young males had for the sexually active, sexually happy older women was really unhealthy then and it's unhealthy now.

It might seem convenient and clean to focus your resentment and sexual frustration on one individual and attack and go after her. But it's only a diversion of your real problem. And building that kind of woman-contempt hostility out of sexual frustration doesn't help you develop the warm male feeling toward women that will help you ever get laid.

The advice I gave you back then is the same I will give you now:

Instead of being bitter, ugly and angry about your virginity and sexual frustration, you have to let go of the anger and misery. Firstly, is very unattractive sexually. Secondly, to really be attractive to a woman as a virgin, you have to develop a warm, joyful feeling about approaching a woman for sex. A virgin male who is upset, resentful and uptight has little chance of persuading a woman to teach him his first experience. You have to approach sex and women with an open hand and a happy heart, and someday you will find the right person.

By carrying all the hostility and negative energy around with you, you are causing a lot of unattractive... I hate to use this word... aura, that a sexually sensual woman will find repulsive in a virgin. You should learn to let go of the anger and hatred of the women who reject you and learn to be sweet and happy about sex. I know that sounds difficult when you're distressed about sex, but that's a paradox of attraction.

I'm not going to fight with you, Abangyarudo.

You work graveyard?

How do you even sleep then?

This thread has gone on long enough. diehard, you violated the rules in the first place, but you, Abangyarudo, perpetuated it.



I've got my eye on you.

Abangyarudo, after your little comment earlier on this page that you think that there will be more attacking me tomorrow, I looked up some of your posts.

Frankly, I have to tell you that I think your behavior in attacking some other posters in a certain way is that of a conceited bully. You brag, talk about your looks and I've also found posts where you bait people and sandbag them with references to past trauma they have disclosed on this website:

( http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp1995603 ... t=#1995603 )

"feel free theres alot of grammer mistakes since I didn't bother to put it in a word processor. Misdirection doesn't increase the validity of your points as opposed to mine. I would comment on something that I find interesting considering some of your history with being bullied but I'm sure you would just be offended and it wouldn't contribute to the conversation so hence thats why I don't add it. As a side note that is why dokken (I think I spelt it wrong) shouldn't have made the childish comment."

Is it really necessary to make disrespectful references to "considering some of [his] history with being bullied". If you are sure the target of your snide little psychological undermining "would just be offended and it wouldn't contribute to the conversation", why did you throw it in his face?

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And no, I don't think you're hot. Your chest is bony and your face doesn't have a pleasant, intelligent look to it. You're not even close to being hot, because I'm not into conceited males with sexual grudges against sexually dominating women.

And yes, I did see the posts in the thread about the "dom" stuff. I'm glad you think you're a dominator, but I'm not a sexual submissive, I'm not into S&M, so your attempt to put me in my sexual place or whatever your creepy thing is, isn't going to pay off.

Now this thread where you're posting your picture, showing your ass and trying to pick at me psychologically by talking about my past trauma, is totally inappropriate and some kind of egocentric drama you're trying to create attention for yourself with.

I'm not gonna say nothing about no individuals, but I think there's a point that often gets missed.

The thing with aspies and sex is more than just sex. It's about intimacy, real closeness with another human being, a sharing of lives, the opposite of isolation.

Isolation is a very common problem for aspies of both genders, aspies of all ages, and aspies of all orientations.

It's not just the immature, it's not just males, and if there was a simple solution we would have found it long ago.

You might want to review the WP rules (first post on this board).

I can't imagine why anyone would start a thread like this, if not for the sole purpose of ganging up on one particular member. I'd say that qualifies as a personal attack.