No "gray area", just "black/white"

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You make sense, but you aren't getting the "at what price" and the side effects.

Unlike normal emotional people (NT) where this is automatic, you are doing it with your mind. It is a "fake". It is a LOT OF WORK. expect to see:

-- sharp edges
-- not flexible to reshape it
-- EXHAUSTING, wears your intellect. Like a car with only one gear on the transmission working, you are overusing the intellectual part of the mind.
-- Emotionally draining, perhaps creating more stress for you that may appear hours or days later.

The way you describe colors is exactly how computer graphics do 3D models. A mesh has colors on each element (polygon). This is fake, not like taking a photograph of a real world object.

In some ways "fake" is better, movies like Toy Story. Aspies often do some things exceptionally well. But look again at the list of issues.

I'm not saying you shouldn't try, but you also have to face that a "tin man can't really have a real heart".

Reference: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polygon_mesh

Um, I have to do this in enough other situations where it causes much bigger problems.



Story of my life

You can smoke and do what you want in your life as long as it does not affect me, its just that i would NEVER associate myself with you in real life because of this fact, even if we could end up talking about programming and/or sciense for hours. I have tried to include some people with smoking habits in my life, but i my allergies wouldnt allow me to keep up those relationships.



I am almost sure that i am pissing of someone with something i do in life. I cannot please everyone, and trying to do that compromise my ideals to the point where i could be replaced by an autonomous bot with no opinion about anything.

Obviously you missed the whole "i have allergies and cannot stand people who smoke" post i posted earlier. I cannot be in the same room as them, there is a reason behind all this, i didnt make up my opinion by rolling some dice.

Here in Sweden we have a second form of popular nicotine called "snus" (Snuff) that comes in small "teabags" that you put under your lip, but i have no problem with it. It is probably cancerous and all that, but it does not affect me. It looks ugly, but it is not my problem.



That is different, they are only affecting themselves. That does not bother me either as much, but i wouldnt want to be with someone (girlfriend-wise) who damaged herself and by her actions risked being thrown into jail. That is not what i am after in a (girlfriend-)relationship.



I clearly said political/religious extremists - not "anyone".

I used to work side by side in school with a muslim woman. She was one of the most reasonable, moderated religious persons i have ever known. But then, she wasnt walking around in a burqa or with religious symbol around her neck.

I can get friends, its just so that i have problems associating myself with most people. Example: on one of my jobs (small corporation), everyone - and i do mean everyone, was playing golf. Didnt have anything to talk about with them except "Hello" and "Goodby"

I rather have friends with quality than friends in quantity.