Optimism and Reality: Goldfish21 Response to me
goldfish21
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So, you believe I believe Fake News about my own health, life, and experiences? I somehow created my own Truman Show and believe all these nice things around me are real, but they're not.. I'm still very ASD and nothing has changed for the efforts I've made, I just believe they have? Weeeeird.
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Maslow's Hierarchy defines basic Needs extremely well. Food, clothing, shelter, medicine. Pretty much everything else is a want.
Access to computers isn't a necessity of life. Yes, it's a very common and valuable modern convenience, but it is not a Need. Besides, our society DOES provide public access to computers/internet at the library for those who cannot afford it at home. Further to that, having a computer at home and being online can be damned near free, anyways. I'm posting from a 2008 Macbook my friend gave me for free so I can use it to take some online classes this year. I'm on my Aunt's wifi for free. Wifi is often included in rent these days. It doesn't take very much money for someone to be online if they consider it a priority - even homeless people have smartphones and use wifi from nearby restaurants etc.
Phones, again, cheap as chips. A phone can be had for about $50 brand new. Extremely basic calling/text plans are very inexpensive, especially in the USA compared to Canada.
Transportation is pretty inexpensive, too. When I didn't have a licence for a year or a car for two years I did a LOT of walking/cycling & using public transit. I would jog or cycle 10 miles round trip to pay my cell phone bill & fetch a backpack full of groceries. Where there's a will there's a way. Public transit is also subsidized for those on disability here. Sure, it's not the convenience of having a car by a long shot, but people can still get around a bit - they're not house bound.
The NT capitalist world is never going to agree to provide all the conveniences of modern life to those who cannot work & earn money to pay for those things themselves. Period. Further, I think it's silly of anyone who cannot work & earn money to think they deserve all of the modern conveniences and luxuries that money affords. People on disability should appreciate the money & resources they do get. The opportunity it affords them to survive, live day to day, carry on just being etc vs. taken out back and shot, or left to starve, or tossed in some "hospital" to hide them away from the world until they die etc. No, they should not be mistreated, but it just doesn't make sense to me that those who cannot earn themselves more money feel entitled to the luxuries that those who can work have. Just be content with what IS provided by a relatively caring society who won't just leave you to starve, make the most of the money you do get, and enjoy your time as best you can - maybe at the beach, maybe writing fan-fic.
"Just be content with what IS provided by a relatively caring society who won't just leave you to starve, make the most of the money you do get, and enjoy your time as best you can - maybe at the beach, maybe writing fan-fic."
Dude, Wanna know what's ironic and funny? You actually made my day. That's exactly what I wish to do. Either at the beach or mountains. Both, write fan-fic and make apps. If I could do these things while at the mountains or beach or country I'd be at my happiest. It's like you read me. How?
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What's an SJW?
From Urban dictionary of all places
"Social Justice Warriors or SJWs are: People with paper thin skin who always find something to be offended about. They generally have no concept of humour. "
Common SJW tactics are enforcing politically correct thought via redefining or trying to ban terms by various forms of intimidation from hacking, doxing, physical attacks, preventing "offensive" people from speaking. While usually associated with politics particularly the illiberal left the term has grown to be associated with the personality types noted above.
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“My autism is not a superpower. It also isn’t some kind of god-forsaken, endless fountain of suffering inflicted on my family. It’s just part of who I am as a person”. - Sara Luterman
Let's define entity x that is a need or want. Needs can be biological like food, clothing, shelter and medicine. A need can also be based upon an inherent requirement either by edict by law of the government or the social veneer of society and there is no positive alternative. Example: For one to apply and/or obtain a job one has to apply online. To do this, one has to have access to a computer and be able to use it. So, access to a computer is not a want but a need.
I disagree. Employers require you to apply on line so access to a computer is a need.
Good! I've used them. I'm glad we have this need provided for those who can't get a personal computer..
Your friend chose to gave it to you. He could have not chosen to give it to you.
Same as your friend.
That's good. A phone is still a need though since it is also required to apply and get a job.
I do wonder if we should re-design our society so it could be more of a bike riding and walking society. But, I bet it got you into shape. Isn't that a positive way to look at it?
You must live in the city, right? And, public transit doesn't exist everywhere and it is not good everywhere.
Honestly, I would rather have it pay for instruction so eventually they could be able to do that.
Well, it's silly to claim as a society that anyone can work hard and pull themselves out of poverty when it's not true. At least tell the truth and not give propaganda.
I do appreciate what I do receive in life.
But, appreciation is relative. Some would rather have been aborted or institutionalized. Sometimes, I wish I was. If I was institutionalized I would receive three hots and a cot like in prison. Yeah, I would be pumped full of drugs and/or given electroshock but would I be worried about where and when I would get my next meal or if I would freeze to death. If it was a good institution more then likely no.
As for death,
“It is only in death that we are truly cured of the 'sickness' of life.”
― Socrates
“The philosopher Diogenes was eating bread and lentils for supper. He was seen by the philosopher Aristippus, who lived comfortably by flattering the king. Said Aristippus, 'If you would learn to be subservient to the king you would not have to live on lentils.'
Said [author:Diogenes|3213618, 'Learn to live on lentils and you will not have to be subservient to the king".”
Me: Sounds awesome to me.
goldfish21
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Are you just messing with me for a laugh or have you ignored every single post that I’ve made for over 4 years that says I am not cured, I have a working treatment protocol that minimizes my symptoms in order to optimize my entire life. I’m basically here to continue sharing that information to anyone who’s open to learning from it as it may help them as it has helped me.
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"Just be content with what IS provided by a relatively caring society who won't just leave you to starve, make the most of the money you do get, and enjoy your time as best you can - maybe at the beach, maybe writing fan-fic."
Dude, Wanna know what's ironic and funny? You actually made my day. That's exactly what I wish to do. Either at the beach or mountains. Both, write fan-fic and make apps. If I could do these things while at the mountains or beach or country I'd be at my happiest. It's like you read me. How?
I’m a beach guy, remembered you posted a couple times about writing fan-fic, had no idea you wanted to combine the two. How far are you from a beach or mountains?
FYI the closest (ocean) beach to home is approx 10 miles from my house, but the one I frequent is closer to 30 miles from home. I can see mountains in multiple directions & can be at the base of one in about an hour. Or drive a few hours and be up in the Big magestic as f**k mountains surrounding Whistler - the view of snow capped mountain peaks as far as the eye can see from the top of Blackcomb mountain is breathtaking. I haven’t been up there for several years now. When I do go back it’ll WOW me for sure.
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Anything that a society requires one to have without alternative is a need. Employers require one to apply online with no exceptions or alternatives. To live in modern society requires a computer. A computer is a need.
As for Maslow's hierarchy of needs I have issues with it. Example, people put themselves in danger all the time with backyard wrestling and it is used for belonging in a group.
And, Biological needs aren't the only needs. The computer and phone are good examples.
Now, let's say a person doesn't want to use a phone or computer. Can this person do that? Entitlements to me aren't just about having things but not having things as well. Is a person entitled to not having a phone or computer and still make a living in today's real world? If the answer is no then we're slaves to our tech and our choices are limited.
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Ok so you are alleviating symptoms from an undiagnosed disorder. If that works for you, that's great. Some of us are naturally skeptical of your claims.
Btw, I love public transportation. Great option for anyone. We need more of it.
I argree with everything you say.
Let me ask you this goldfish. If capitalism is such an efficient and effective system as claimed then why is half of food produced thrown away? https://www.theguardian.com/environment ... es-perfect
Why did VHS succeed over the betamax despite the fact that the betamax was a better product then the VHS?
Why are banks and other one percenters considered to big to fail? Why do they get bailouts yet I, ASS-P, you and the average joe can't get bailouts? Why don't personal responsibility apply to banks and the one percenters? Why am I entitled to nothing by others yet these one percenter as*holes are entitled to everything including a bailout?
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Well, it's silly to claim as a society that anyone can work hard and pull themselves out of poverty when it's not true. At least tell the truth and not give propaganda.[/quote]
It’s not silly. It’s fact. Whether working hard or smart, anyone can work their way out of poverty.
Even those on disability have some disposable income. I know a few who spend plenty more on drugs and alcohol than I do. Even without employment income they could save up money if they wanted to.
They have internet access, too, and thus access to information and learning. They could also make it a priority to learn what to invest their savings into to grow it into more money. Or do so attheir bank. Whether low risk small returns or smart moves investing in higher risk things (stocks/crypto) virtually anyone can increase their monetary wealth even if they’re unable to work and have wage increases/employment income.
I’ve never made a very high wage to date, but I have saved and invested some money and it will grow and then I’ll doversify into various investments and overtime grow things further. It might take me years to make a lot of money, but who knows? Maybe I get lucky and make sognificant returns rather rapidly and have enough money to retire from my day job early and do what I want instead ?? I was bankrupt 6 years ago and unable to work. I haven’t made perfect investment decisions lol if I had a crystal ball I’d be a multimillionaire overnight. I made costly mistakes that if I didn’t make I’d have 3x as much money as I do now, but regardless, I am still in the black and the future looks prosperous. I’ll get wealthier slowly over time eve if I never ever earn an above average income.
That’s me, though, obviously. It might take someone else a couple years to save $500, but during that couple years they could explore learning what to do with it and if they make some calculated risky moves they could double it up a lot faster than another couple years (technically possible overnight!) and then continue to grow their savings and investments forever if they choose. It is the use what wealthy investment advisor types say, that you Can save and invest in virtually ANY income level.
Personally I feel that the internet and stick market are incredible equalizers for us autistics as we may never ever get that $ix figure paying job, but even on a modest employment income we can save some money, crunch the numbers, analyze things 8 ways from Sunday, take some risks with money we can afford to lose & turn it into a small fortune over time - or, you never know, even a big fortune!! NT world & employment income be damned, We can still make a LOT of money in this world - possibly faster and better than many of our NT counterparts who can’t quite do the math and analysis as good or fast as we can, and who can’t manage to save much of their way higher income because they give a s**t about material things, a social life, fashion etc. Meanwhile, on half the income I can become wealthier than them in a few short years and then leave them in the dust!
I know, I know, that’s Me and my business school education & kinda Rain Man like nature + my symptoms under control via treatments etc etc but my point holds true that literally any of us, even on disability, can save & invest money and grow it over time. We don’t necessarily ever have to be capable of getting and keeping a job and earning a high wage. Granted, gotta have discipline and self control and decent executive functioning - but again, ALL of these things can be worked on and improved over time if that’s one’s goal to do so in order to be more financially prosperous.
Maybe others never see six or seven figure account balances, but, improvement is improvement. $500 saved from disability payments could be turned into thousands or tens of thousands by retirement.
Making money does not have to come from a paycheque - in fact, one of the most monetarily valuable things a multimillionaire friend ever said to me was “People don’t make their money from their jobs.” And what he meant was that they build fortunes by saving their employment income and utilizing it as investment capital to the best of their ability - and that’s how people get rich. That’s how virtually ANY of us can slowly build our own net worth, too. More is more, improvement is improvement. Some or us can and will become millionaires, others may only make a few thousand extra dollars over their lifetime - but every single last one of us Can do better than our current financial position.
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Ok so you are alleviating symptoms from an undiagnosed disorder. If that works for you, that's great. Some of us are naturally skeptical of your claims.
Btw, I love public transportation. Great option for anyone. We need more of it.
I comprehend your skepticism, which is why I stated right from day one of my treatment protocol disclosure: I don’t want you to take my word for it; I’d prefer you try it for yourself and see if it works for you. Doing so would either prove Or disprove it for yourself at a low monetary cost w/ near zero health risks (it is possible to do yourself harm by doing something stupid, obviously) AND the *possibility* that it’s a major positive turning point in your lives, too.
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Well, it's silly to claim as a society that anyone can work hard and pull themselves out of poverty when it's not true. At least tell the truth and not give propaganda.[/quote]
It’s not silly. It’s fact. Whether working hard or smart, anyone can work their way out of poverty.
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You have to work hard and at least be minimally competent. Not everyone is minimally competent in the skills needed to work ones way out of poverty.
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