Raph522 wrote:
its possible there wont even be a cure and only treatments to help the bad junk (like speach therapies and other therapies, most not as bad as they used to be it seems), and that would mean fighting about one online's a little pointless, i geuss.
It's not quite pointless, because words like 'cure' and 'recovery' can be falsely substituted for 'hope' in a way that, at least in my life, has been destructive and inaccurate, and did not for a long time allow anyone in my family to see the whole picture of what was going on or what could go on, and led to bad things. So despite one not existing, the ideas can still be pretty potent. And in my life it became all the more potent and dangerous, not less, because I was not capable of being brought to the standard of functioning deemed normal in my society. My family was presented with some pretty stark and downright evil alternatives based on that and it's largely luck that they weren't fully realized.
I can't describe the whole thing right now. I just described it to someone last night, and my jaw hurts (which is interfering with thinking). Maybe I'll blog it.
Also, things being a problem of the environment are more complex than just "NT attitudes", that's an oversimplification of the views of a lot of us around that. For instance, it's possible for there to be elements of the environment that can be changed to be not only less overloading and more clear for autistic people but better for many other sorts of people as well. It doesn't have to be just "attitudes" that change, and accessibility has become a reality for many other sorts of disabled people (at least in some places) despite it originally being considered impossible (and again it's led to more than just changes that benefit disabled people, but also many other people as well). When people talk about society we're not talking just about the particular climate of a social situation, we're also talking about willingness to make more things accessible for more sorts of people. And since disabled people actually include most of the population if you go across a lifespan, that becomes quite a necessity if you think about it, unless we want to continue just shunting people off into corners as soon as they cross a certain line.
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