The truth always comes out of your mouth first when people ask you something. You always have to think ahead of time about lying so the lie comes out first. You have a tell when you do polite lies to spare feelings
You like wearing double layers of clothes because it feels so nice and soft
You are the only one who is bothered by a muted TV and no one else can hear it
You hold off eating because you are too busy with whatever you are doing and you don't want to stop
You prefer people who are weird or quirky or seem aspie like even though they don't have the condition but do to symptoms over lapping, they are aspie like
You had to go online just to find dates and a relationship because you did not find that possible in real life
You are only flexible and like surprises if it's something you like, same as with change and also if you don't know what else to do so you leave it up for other people to decide and you will follow along
Growing up, you only played with other kids if things went your way
As a child, your friends always had to pull teeth with you to get you to be flexible with playing such as letting them move your Barbie furniture around in your dollhouse and then promising you they will put it back when they are done
People always have to tell you what they want you to do due to "lack of empathy" because it does not come to you natural to just help them on your own or do things on your own for them
As a child, whenever someone messed up your stuff, you would get very upset and not do anything else until you were finished fixing it and you would have anxiety over it and be crying and screaming about it as you fixed up the mess
You played with your toys the same way over and over and liked to line things up and play with each part such as line the cars up and play with each car and then move onto the next one. Line up your Polly Pocket people and play with each one and move onto the next. You had them all do each thing and then move onto the next
You are always lying to try and stay out of trouble when you do something wrong because you know telling the truth would still get you into trouble when it was supposed to keep you out of it but your mother was wrong when she told you that
You mistake your acquaintances as your friends
You look back in your childhood and realize you didn't really have a true friend and you also realize some kids were probably your friends out of pity or because they felt they had to be your friend due to you being from special ed
You get obsessed with a person and you are always looking them up online, staking their posts, in real life it would be always calling them, always wanting to be around them and talking to them. Or whenever you get obsessed with a person, you totally ignore them pretending they are not there and you never call them or even speak to them
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Son: Diagnosed w/anxiety and ADHD. Also academic delayed and ASD lv 1.
Daughter: NT, no diagnoses. Possibly OCD. Is very private about herself.