fiddlerpianist wrote:
ColdBlooded wrote:
But... One thing i did notice the other day was funny, though. I was talking to someone i know who i think is likely an aspie, he does have a lot of aspie traits at least.... But it occured to me halfway through the conversation that we were both trying to kind of pull the conversation in different directions. We both had different topics on our minds that we were sort of stuck on, and, because of this, the conversation was wasn't exactly flowing in any kind of structured way or in any direction. I thought that was interesting.
I've noticed this with a guy I know who has a few AS traits. He wants to talk non-stop about what's on his mind, and I want to talk about what's on mine. Kind of a tug o' war.
My boyfriend and I are like that. We enjoy it though cause we never have to worry about over talking the other person because we over talk each other.
He does not have AS but has some of the good traits associated with AS.
I think thats why we get along so well.
