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and there where a bunch of guys who stood up for that guy, you, along with 95% of the people on Wrongplanet would stick up for him, but that's the IRONIC THING, you just stick up for any person with low self-esteem, it just gets so onedimensional in the end that I'm beginning to think about leaving this site.
I usually just respond to logic, not username. This post is addressed to every Aspie who feels that he (or she) is helpless in our world.
I feel apologetic to hear this. Yes, it's nearly impossible to be independent when we are handicapped in some form or another. You think I am not autistic is it? No, I am not only autistic, I also feel handicapped in my social skills as I cannot freely interact with NTs. I am living in a different world from the normal. I do not expect to live away from my parents... As Singapore has so few group homes for autistics, I expect to live with my parents and they might have to suffer in life.
I do not know your conditions, I do not know what are the societal attitudes in your places too. However, I do know that despite what had happened, even though I feel bad and discouraged by my autism, I am still expected (as an only son of my family) to support my family... this requires even more from me than let's say I live independently. And somehow I still cannot get employed for the time being. So my personal experience just tells me that unless you are totally crippled, mute, blind or something like that, you can still somehow self-manage and do well enough to lead your own best. And hopefully earn enough money to support yourself, including the money to employ workers, if you've good ideas or something like that.
So what we cannot function well in society? As long as we do our best, we can still manage to do some things in the world. And just a few words, like 'you just stick up for any person with low self-esteem, it just gets so onedimensional in the end'... as if I do not listen to your views. I admit because of my autism, I cannot listen to you as the way you want to be. I cannot help with it.
Even if 2012 comes, I will just hope to live strong and fight for my life, no matter how handicapped or useless I might turn out to be. I hope in 4 years time, you will be happier with your life...
And recognize that every Aspie is different. I know that I ain't some other Aspie... I am myself and no matter what you think I am, I along with other Aspies are all different, like different wavelengths of the light spectrum!
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