MathGirl wrote:
How can a high-end ASD professional have diagnosed you with Asperger's, and then later on the doctors were saying that you "outgrew" AS? You're not really that socially awkward anymore, and yet it seems that you were a textbook case as a child. Technically, you cannot outgrow a neurological condition, and yet the DOCTORS said that you outgrew it. This contradiction baffles me to no end. I simply don't get it.
Well actually we use to say "hard-wired" to mean a neurological condition. But the brain is not hard-wired, is soft-wired. Like people after brain trauma can (with time) recover some function the same is possible within the autism spectrum. Untill around 16 y-old the brain change and grow. At age 3 and around age 8-12 it goes trough a lot of change that can actually change your condition.
Also autism is determinated by symptoms and until DMS-V (they'll introduce 2 further cathegory: subclinical and "normal variant") you need a "real, tangible impairment" to be DXed.
When I was young I had time of selective mutism, crazy melt-down all day long, and so on. At that time a psyc would have DXed me with Asperger and probably other kind of disorder (I also had other problems). Now, at 27, I have a wife, a work, 2 childrens, some friends, I'm respected in my working environment. Obviosly I'm still "weird", my friend always say: "you are a mad scientist", but I'm far from having any clinical impairment, so if you strictly read DMS-IV I can't have Asperger. By the way, today I'll see my psyc.. we will see what she tell
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