Found my bully........

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That is true. The mean and nasty people can have better lives. I just wish bullies got what is coming to them like I see in dramas. Right now in this drama the woman is a mean and nasty person to her daughter in law. Well the mother in law's business went bankrupt and she will lose her home. Ah karma! I wish those things can happen to our bullies. You hurt me, you get hurt millions times worse. That way you can feel pain too. No reason to be mean to others even if the bully came from broken home.

What did you do to this bully to get revenge? This bully still bothering you??
Yes I do have to agree with you that bullies start bullying when they are really young. They never learn. I get bullied at work too and looked down upon. I don't care about bullies or their personal issues. Bullies need help.

Some words that may help.....

Even if your bullies do become more "successful", it may be possible that they changed their ways,or if they have not done so, they may eventually either lose everything, or at the very end, their cronies may abandon them once they outlive their "usefulness". If the bully does not change their ways, when they old or sick, they may be finding themselves dying alone and unloved upon their day of reckoning. Although they may have never answered to you, nor any authority, nor family, they WILL have to answer to God for their actions in the end. Retribution will come...it is just a matter of WHEN.

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Don't martial arts emphasize discipline? Just because UFC is popular doesn't mean you can go beating anyone you want up. Even if he used to be a douche bully.

This was emotional, not physical, bullying (unless I were to count pebble-throwing as "physical") that went on for a while: insults, snide comments etc. After this person grinned with absolute delight when I got a low mark for interrupting class, I waited until class was over and responded to the grin with a very vigorous slap.

What followed was a fortunately democratic form of "disciplinary action" during which I argued that we should all strive towards solutions, not blame. Thankfully, people in my class shunned the idea of disciplinary action, and apart from the vast majority who abstained, most voted against any penalities.

This person didn't bother me again at all, though the sarcasm and cruelty were still there, under the surface.

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WOW congrads on the Masters. I just have a Bachelor of Arts degree in music. I do want to get a masters someday, but not in music.

Live Well.....

He felt he had the right to kick your ass so do it if you feel you have the right to beat his but do not get caught you are old enough to go to jail unless you can prove you two are mutual combatants or he provoked the attack.

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Honestly, if you were still in highschool, or he still bothered you, I'd say give 'em hell. However, it sounds like you haven't even seen eachother lately, I'd advise not doing and just moving on. Trust me, I had the same problem all throughout my school life. But I haven't seen them in years, and I've moved on. To me tracking this guy down could only make things worse.

The best thing I learned was just "randomly" bumping into the bully, and just basicaly taunt him. Give him some fighting talk let him know you want to fight him, then when he backs down or looks a bit scared etc then just laugh give a sly comment and walk off. He knows he can't take you on and you know you can knock this bully out so if you know that this is going to happen you don't actualy have to fight him just let him know you can take him out. You feel good he feels like a little wet girl.

As Bruce Lee once said "The art of fighting without fighting."

I say good luck, bullies deserve it.