Have you ever had people you just met ask if you have ASD?

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05 Oct 2010, 5:41 pm

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Someone at school asked me if I have Asperger's after we'd talked for a few minutes. We were friends for a bit before he moved schools.


It is rare to find anyone who is familiar with Asperger's. Friends are rare too. I'm sorry you lost yours so soon. Maybe you could find each other again via the web?


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05 Oct 2010, 5:55 pm

Once I went to a mood disorder support group and describing my childhood a lady blurted out and asked me if I was autistic. She said she worked with AS people for a living. Then I got a bunch of questions from everyone in the group, they were trying to figure me out.


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05 Oct 2010, 6:16 pm

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Once I went to a mood disorder support group and describing my childhood a lady blurted out and asked me if I was autistic. She said she worked with AS people for a living. Then I got a bunch of questions from everyone in the group, they were trying to figure me out.


You are lucky to have found someone who knows about autism to help you figure it out. That group sounds helpful. What (if you don't mind my asking) did they conclude?


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05 Oct 2010, 6:39 pm

Not exactly, but the second time I met my friend's husband, he responded to something I said with, "Isn't that a symptom of autism?"


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05 Oct 2010, 7:01 pm

I have probably not encountered many people who know what Asperger's Syndrome is. No one has asked me directly. Then again, I stopped meeting people several years ago. Everyone I have ever known has remarked in some way that I am not like anyone else they have encountered. This excludes relatives, who seem to see me as mentally deficient, which I am, but not quite the way they think, I believe; they would not tell me what they think. People have told me that I remind them of Spock [or alternately Pee-wee Herman]. I do not perceive a physical resemblance. I do not believe that I could pass for a normal person among sober persons.

edit: When I was a child around 13 years old I was acquainted with a neighbor whose sister was MFA. He informed me that I am like his sister. That meant nothing to me at the time.



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05 Oct 2010, 11:04 pm

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Not exactly, but the second time I met my friend's husband, he responded to something I said with, "Isn't that a symptom of autism?"


He was probably waiting to see if you might then say something like "Yes, that is because I have autism." If you don't mind sharing, how did you respond?


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05 Oct 2010, 11:10 pm

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I have probably not encountered many people who know what Asperger's Syndrome is. No one has asked me directly. Then again, I stopped meeting people several years ago. Everyone I have ever known has remarked in some way that I am not like anyone else they have encountered. This excludes relatives, who seem to see me as mentally deficient, which I am, but not quite the way they think, I believe; they would not tell me what they think. People have told me that I remind them of Spock [or alternately Pee-wee Herman]. I do not perceive a physical resemblance. I do not believe that I could pass for a normal person among sober persons.

edit: When I was a child around 13 years old I was acquainted with a neighbor whose sister was MFA. He informed me that I am like his sister. That meant nothing to me at the time.


You come across here as articulate and intelligent. When you say you are mentally deficient, I assume you mean in your ability to read body language, etc. What do you mean by "MFA"? I could Google it, but I am not sure that would narrow it down to only one possible meaning, given the context.


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06 Oct 2010, 8:02 am

Rocky wrote:
Kaybee wrote:
Not exactly, but the second time I met my friend's husband, he responded to something I said with, "Isn't that a symptom of autism?"


He was probably waiting to see if you might then say something like "Yes, that is because I have autism." If you don't mind sharing, how did you respond?


"Yes. Yes, it is."

For what it's worth, I don't believe he was being negative or judgmental--just curious. Though I hadn't considered that he might have suspected me to be autistic prior to this conversation. I'm so clueless. ^_^;


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06 Oct 2010, 8:11 am

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What do you mean by "MFA"? I could Google it, but I am not sure that would narrow it down to only one possible meaning, given the context.


Medium functioning autism. I see that the way I used it is awkward.



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07 Oct 2010, 8:13 am

Someone I met on OkCupid asked me if I had Asperger's over the phone. I had never heard of it. I heard "assburgers" and was like WTF is that? But then someone else suggested it, so I had to research it. I always related to the "indigo children" thing, and noticed a lot of the same characteristics in AS. Now I'm officially diagnosed. Yippie.


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07 Oct 2010, 3:20 pm

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Someone I met on OkCupid asked me if I had Asperger's over the phone. I had never heard of it. I heard "assburgers" and was like WTF is that? But then someone else suggested it, so I had to research it. I always related to the "indigo children" thing, and noticed a lot of the same characteristics in AS. Now I'm officially diagnosed. Yippie.


Thanks for responding. I have never heard of indigo children. I will have to check that out myself! I know many people are genuinely happy when they are diagnosed ASD, so I hope you are serious when you say "Yippie." :)

edit: "post script"- I just glanced at the Wikipedia entry for indigo children and found it interesting, but I personally don't believe in any of the supernatural part of it. (I am not saying that you do.) The rest was of interest. Thanks again.


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07 Oct 2010, 3:40 pm

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Kaybee wrote:
Not exactly, but the second time I met my friend's husband, he responded to something I said with, "Isn't that a symptom of autism?"


He was probably waiting to see if you might then say something like "Yes, that is because I have autism." If you don't mind sharing, how did you respond?


"Yes. Yes, it is."

For what it's worth, I don't believe he was being negative or judgmental--just curious. Though I hadn't considered that he might have suspected me to be autistic prior to this conversation. I'm so clueless. ^_^;


Good answer. That is how I might have responded. Let them draw their own conclusions.


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07 Oct 2010, 5:08 pm

when tired or hyped, yes



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07 Oct 2010, 5:44 pm

Rocky wrote:
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Rocky wrote:
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Not exactly, but the second time I met my friend's husband, he responded to something I said with, "Isn't that a symptom of autism?"


He was probably waiting to see if you might then say something like "Yes, that is because I have autism." If you don't mind sharing, how did you respond?


"Yes. Yes, it is."

For what it's worth, I don't believe he was being negative or judgmental--just curious. Though I hadn't considered that he might have suspected me to be autistic prior to this conversation. I'm so clueless. ^_^;


Good answer. That is how I might have responded. Let them draw their own conclusions.


He just nodded and continued with the conversation. A good response on his part, I should say.


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07 Oct 2010, 5:58 pm

Its only happened once.

I was reading some of the genealogies in the bible (genesis and luke) and noticed a slight contradiction. So when i went toa bible study group a couple of days later and i asked the group why did they think this was the case.

Funnily enough nobody had even ever noticed it before, and one of them said "Do you have aspergers or something?" in a jokey sort of a way.
I think my response was something like "Would it suprise you if i said i did?"

Cant response what the response was, but it wasn't anything special and nobody seemed to really care in the end.

It was the first time someone asked, so it gave me great self-confidence to be completely truthful without being scared of a negative reaction. Now im not scared, or particularly scared if someone asked, but nobody has since anywat.



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09 Oct 2010, 5:40 pm

Kaybee wrote:
Rocky wrote:
Kaybee wrote:
Rocky wrote:
Kaybee wrote:
Not exactly, but the second time I met my friend's husband, he responded to something I said with, "Isn't that a symptom of autism?"


He was probably waiting to see if you might then say something like "Yes, that is because I have autism." If you don't mind sharing, how did you respond?


"Yes. Yes, it is."

For what it's worth, I don't believe he was being negative or judgmental--just curious. Though I hadn't considered that he might have suspected me to be autistic prior to this conversation. I'm so clueless. ^_^;


Good answer. That is how I might have responded. Let them draw their own conclusions.


He just nodded and continued with the conversation. A good response on his part, I should say.


A good response for someone you just met. I agree. On the other hand, when those close to you are first told, I would hope that they would ask more about the subject, since most people are not that familiar with ASD's. beyond the stereotypes.


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