What annoys or upsets you?

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Annoyances (things that either anger or simply annoy me);

Interruptions when doing something interesting.
Small talk. (Especially "How are you?")
People saying something very obvious, assuming that I had not thought of it myself.
My own difficulties when speaking.
People saying things to other people on the internet akin to "get a life". Fantasy>Reality.
Ignorant people that still think they know what they're talking about. (If someone's ignorant and they admit it, I don't mind.)
Having to lie.
Hypocrisy.
The compulsion to constantly belittle myself.
My own irrationality.


Upsetting things (things that I fear and might panic over);

Elitism.
Arrogance.
Angry people.
Über-intelligent people.
Anger directed at me, or someone I relate to in the context.
Disdain directed at me, or someone I relate to in the context.
Confusion, not knowing what I should do or say.
Making mistakes.
Someone in my family finding out something about me that I don't want them to.

Clutter
People kissing next to me
People chewing with their mouth open
Old people spitting their phlegm into tissues or cups
Rude people on the road
Strict fundementalism
Overzealous political correctness
Messy people who have roaches in their houses
Nieghbors who are noisy past 10 pm
People who go on about sex as if it was tops over anything else
Parents who b*tch and moan if the school or society doesn't cater to their little Jonny's needs
People who complain, but don't do anything to help themselves

Maybe my three biggest upsetting things:

Strongly held beliefs. I find most to be identical in reasoning, nature, and fervor, with superficial differences. I can't trust a man who doesn't notice how much his belief system resembles what he thinks of as its counterpart. It makes me wish most debaters were honest with themselves, and simply flung feces at each other or grunted while adopting primate dominance poses.

Incompetence. It grates on me to no end to see something done poorly.

Ignorance, which I think of as willful stupidity. I can't understand a person who is so incurious as to not bother doing a simple Google search. People who "don't like to read" make me consider the logistics of Saw traps. I tend to think they are purposely trying not to learn.

Of all the things that annoy me, almost every one involves human behaviour.

Probably the most common annoyance to me, is today's politics and government practices. Idealism that cannot fix anything, and seeing the government enforcing ideals for which there is no ability or backing to see through successfully (i.e. Obamacare), and seeing us move toward socialism and communism. Seeing the lazy bums who don't want to do their part, voting to remove the fruits of others' labor. It's government-sanctioned theft. Our leaders are preaching that we need not earn anything anymore... Just demand it in stead. That annoys the crap out of me.

Charles

Got to say - this topic is intimidating as hell. So many reasons for people to hate me.
Does anyone else feel like this, or am I the only one whose defects have been listed somewhere in here?
I guess you could add that to my list...the 'upsetting' list. Heh, yay, why do I keep reading things like this (curiosity or covert masochism?), the self-hating part of me is gleefully piling up more things to the long list of exactly why I suck and why people might want me dead. I wish I could defeat her.

Being interrupted while in the middle of doing something
People avoiding me
Slow computers
Being late
Being labeled "creepy"
People who roar by on their motorcycles
Noisy neighbors
Ignorant people

People not answering emails.

I don't mean busy people, just classmates who are on facebook pretty much all the time anyway. Bad manners.

People not answering me
People projecting
Double standards
Hypocrisy
Child abuse
Animal abuse
People not listening to my side and point of view and being a brick wall
People that think bullying is okay
People in general
BS people do
People trying to screw with me
Being labeled a bully when I stick up for myself
People misreading my intentions, it's worse when friends or people who have known me for a while do it
People who say "its who I am" when they do annoying things or do things that are rude and disrespectful
People who make a big deal over typos and play dumb

When my baby won't stop crying I sometimes think he has been possessed by something because he is usually quiet and mellow and only cries when he is hungry or when he has his bath or when he gets changed or dressed sometimes. He has been fed and changed and burped and he still won't settle down and he keeps scratching me and pushing his feet into my body. I am sure he doesn't mean to scratch me. He just likes grabbing and digging his hands into me. But when he is with his father, he is his normal self again but with me, oh no. I sometimes thinks he hates me and then other times he likes me. My husband just goes "He's a baby babies do that" and reassures he loves me. But sometimes I get so angry at him and he is only three months. I just hope it's all in my head and that my husband is right.

When people tell me to socialise more.

GODDAMMITIDON'TWANTTOSOCIALISEGGGARHHHGFJHFGFHGFH!! !! !!

Also, not winning a bid on Ebay.

Lag
Shotguns
Knives
Spray n' pray machine gun noobs
Snipers

...and being interrupted while I'm trying not to die from the things listed above.

Things that annoy me:
People reminding me to do s**t. Like "Remember to take your meds" or "Remember, you have a doctors appointment tomorrow." I guess people do it to everyone, but it makes me feel like they don't think I'm competent enough to remember.

My Grandma pushing on my forearm when I put my elbows on the table. I don't care if she doesn't want me to put them there, but I hate when she touches me.

Also, when my Grandma sneakily tries to see my scars (I used to self-harm, on my stomach.) Like, I was buying a bathing suit for our trip to the Bahamas, and I went into the change room and tried on this bathing suit and she was like "Can I see it on you?" And I was like "... No?" Also, I wore a tanktop over it the whole time. >_>

The sounds of floors/doors creaking. Argh.

Also a lot more, listed on my blog. :3

Things that upset me:
When friends say they're not going to hang out, but they do and don't invite me.

When people get mad at me for not understanding verbal instructions. (I'm really bad with that. When someone says "Take out the garbage/take some chicken out of the freezer/empty the dishwasher" I often only remember one of those things."

When people tease me about how 'm too old to sleep with my stuffed sheep. :3 Seriously, I don't know why it matters. I've had it since I was 3, and that thing has saved me from a lot of panic attacks.

myself.

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Mean people

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