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Serissa
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07 Oct 2005, 3:59 pm

Pugly wrote:
I generally don't like to be touched by people, and even though I can tollerate it while getting a haircut, since its expected and doesn't surprise me, it still bugs me. One big problem is actually explaining what kind of hair cut I want, I never get what I am trying to say across very well so I never know exactly how my hair is going to turn out. All the hair products that smell get to me too....

The kicker is the almost manditory small talk... I never initiate it but sometimes they try asking quesitons... I give my answers and never persue the conversation further. The conversation usually ends with me saying I like to study math... and them saying oh I hate math.


I used to have a b---h of a time figuring out how to explain the cut I wanted and people generally f---ed it up anyway. I never minded people touching my hair but I hate the smell in there and they always want to use hairspray, which really bugged me as a kid and now I still dislike. As for small talk, I guess they have a boring job if they don't talk to their clients, but I do wish they could accept that some people want their hair cut in silence.

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The sensation of the clippers and head massages rule.


Amen. Though I do not get anything done needing clippers (any more) I do like getting it brushed. Only thing is I have 11 earrings in each ear and oeftn the hairdresser will snag them.

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i LOVE people playing with my hair. has to be the right people, of course... ;)


Another one like me! EVen during my ubertouchaphobic period (the last nineteen years- I'm 19 by the way) I liked having my hair done, the feel of it anyway. Not so fun when it looked like crap.

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Today is the day that I go for my Dreaded Haircut. The shrill sound of the Scissors sounds like the Sword Fights that they have in the Movies. When the Mystery Hairdresser of the Day uses the Blade Comb, it hurts. It tickles me when the back of my neck is getting shaved with the Clipper, and it's hard to stay still when it happens. And on top of that, they poof my hair up with those smelly Styling Products, when all that I want is a simple Bare Bones Haircut. The part that I dispize the most is the Small Talk. Sometimes I initiate the Small Talk, because I don't like to be asked questions and it's painfully hard for me to do without bringning up something about Austin Powers at least once, and I try my darndest not to mention anything about London, England. The rest of the Hairdressers and their customers make enough comments about my Accent. I don't need them to double the comments.

However, I go through the trouble, because I like my hair to be short.


Note for the future: just say "I'm allergic to hair products, gel, hairpray, everything." Even if you're not they understand the concept of "allergy." The concept of "I don't like it" will produce argument, but generally people arent' so dumb they think you can stop an allergy by arguing iwth it. Usually.



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07 Oct 2005, 4:07 pm

I HATE hair cuts,and I REALLY hated them as a kid.I like my hair long.I do trim it the ends though.

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07 Oct 2005, 4:11 pm

I cut my own... I dont like others touching my head (any part of me actually, but especially my head)... But I have to admit one of my major stims includes my head. If you have the right comb its very relaxing to just stroke it around your scalp... Just dont get too hard or you'll bleed.



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07 Oct 2005, 5:07 pm

I don't like having to sit incredibly still while someone waves sharp scissors around and bits of hair get on your face! Ugh! I used be really bothered by how to describe how to get it cut, but just saying "half an inch shorter" seems to work ok (the hair - not me, though with those scissors...).

I really like the feel of the electric clippers on the back of my neck. They send pleasurable shivers down my back, though perhaps these are just the rebound from the less pleasurable shivers caused by the sound of the scissors!

I did grow my hair long some years ago, but looking after it seemed worse than getting the hair cut. It would never dry, and try keeping a pony-tail intact while flying a kite with your back to a strong wind :-)

It always takes a couple of days to get used to seeing myself in a mirror after a hair cut. At first, I *always* hate the way it looks, probably because it's just different rather than it just being a bad cut.



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08 Oct 2005, 1:19 am

I have been copping no end of torment from my family for the last three months because I have kept putting off getting a haircut. I'm going for this whole 70's thing except I cant grow side burns or a decent moustache.



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08 Oct 2005, 6:09 am

mjs82 wrote:
except I cant grow side burns or a decent moustache.

Then grow an indecent moustache 8O