I don't know. When I think of an aspie male, I think of a name that is one syllable and cool.
Dan
Ben
Zach
John (yeah, I know, somebody already said those)
Matt
Mark
Luke
Joe
and so on...
A name for a female aspie, I think, should make you think of a introvert who locks herself in her room and reads all day.
Faith
Paige
Amelia
Katherine
that sort of thing...
Slightly more gender-neutral names for girls like
Chris (Christine)
Sam (Samantha)
Alex (Alexandra)
would also work.
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