"This person has autism" cards. What do you think?

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Can I get a version of this for the phone? An automated voice that comes on when you pick up the phone and says: "This person has aspergers syndrome, please hang up immediately". The GPS lady could do it, if she's free.

I'm still working on some minor modifications to my card, but I'll post when I'm ready with them. I've been posting in the threads Ever Used an Autism Alert Card? and Help designing an Asperger's card, what would you put on it? about this subject. I did a test run of my new card while on vacation, showing it to the nurse at a blood drive where I wanted to donate and also getting the reactions of helpful friends. This went fairly well.

(I couldn't donate blood, though - not because of my Asperger's or fibromyalgia, but because my iron was high enough to be healthy under normal circumstances but not high enough for me to be okay after giving a pint of blood. I was off by .5 on their quick test. I've been advised to eat peanut butter half an hour beforehand next time, to boost my iron that extra little bit. I'll try again in the future, following this advice.)

In the part of my card that lists extra info particular to the individual, I mention difficulty with sitting in the same position or standing for long periods because of my fibromyalgia, which I list as an additional health concern. After I make a couple of minor changes to the general part of the card, I'll also include in my personal section the info that "I have some degree of processing delay and sensory issues. I have occasional minor meltdowns/shutdowns. My issues are not always immediately apparent, and I can be quite friendly." This should help others who might not notice in me, personally, the things that are mentioned on the front of the card or who might need to know why I'm having specific difficulties. Other people can highlight other stuff on their cards in that section by typing in their own concerns, so it's highly personalized in that way for them.

I've now posted about my new card and my test run of it in this thread.

My mum has them for my brother, and I cringe at the mere mention of them.
His friend has full on PDA, and his mother hands them out, which I can almost understand.
I mean, why can't you just tell people he's bothering, that he's on the autistic spectrum, instead of giving out cards? Unless you're autistic yourself, and cannot communicate that out, I understand then.

Well, that's actually the point: You can hand one out if you can't be verbal enough when you need the explanation to be given to someone, such as the police, emergency medical personnel, or some passer-by who just happens to be there when you're having some kind of difficulty on the street (such as a meltdown or shutdown). If you aren't able to function well enough or are too sick or injured to hand out the card, a first responder may be looking for your ID anyway and come across the card that way.

A mother may get tired of repeating herself to every uninformed person every time something occurs. That would give her reason to hand out a card that says it for her, which is especially convenient if she's busy dealing with whatever issue may be at hand with her child.

If any adult, whether they're on the spectrum or the parent of someone who is, is uncomfortable having or handing out such a card, they should not be compelled to do so. For adults, the idea is for it to be a choice. And that choice should also involve enough options so that the right card for each person wanting one can be found.

I could use a stack of those in case I get pulled over by police for no reason due to just looking suspicious and suspicion of being drunk or high when I am really not. Also in situations where I am going to be judged for no aparent reason or when someone is going to ask me what is wrong with me.

Yes, but in the case of my brother, he just occasionally say's things like "it smells in here" really loudly, in-front of a bunch of sick people. I've only seen him do 3 things (he's nine), which would even require my mother, to tell people.
I just don't get it. Mum has told me about lots of other parents, with children like him, who hand out cards.