Diagnosed with what?
Let's see:
I was Dxed with depression early on, and my parents put me on Prozac by EIGHT.
Anxiety dx came at around 18 (which I do have) but since to my mother depression is the only mental illness, I was still "depressed".
Put on a cocktail of anti-anxiety medications, including Klonopin, which left me lethargic and dumb.
At 20, they dragged me to some quack who said I had bipolar disorder because I don't sleep at night (I sleep during the day, because the day is too effing bright to be conscious for). Lamictal was prescribed, and my dad insisted on watching me take it.
21- I find my savior- a quiet, unassuming therapist at the army base where my dad worked, primarily trained in treating PTSD, but well-informed generally, who had a copy of the list of Asperger's traits developed studying WOMEN. He was the first to take my "side", and tell my parents that they could no longer pretend our family's problems were because of my difference.
He later told me he suspected my dad has Asperger's,
and then on my first visit with him, when I was most "regressed" due to the previous...21 years of life...he knew immediately I had it.
I'm nearly 24 and it's taken them this long to come around to his way of thinking.
Why I had to spend a quarter of my life telling them I'm not obstinate/defiant/difficult purely to irritate them, I have no idea.
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"Such is the Frailty
of the human Heart, that very few Men, who have no Property, have any Judgment of their own.
They talk and vote as they are directed by Some Man of Property, who has attached their Minds
to his Interest."