pezar wrote:
I'm a guy, and I HATE shaving. I grow my beard until there's several weeks' worth, at which time it starts to itch BADLY, so I finally give in and shave. I also shave my underarms, which I do because I realize that hair traps odor, and I don't shower often because of sensory issues, so I tend to stink. I never used to shave my underarms, until the hair got an odor in it that REFUSED to wash out, then I had to. Girls have it worse, they're expected to shave legs, armpits (in USA), and their crotches, especially if they have a sex partner (hopefully none of you 17 year old girls are having sex regularly quite yet). A man just has to shave his beard and for partially bald men their heads. Some shave armpits, and women are starting to demand that men shave their crotches. Some men do what is called "manscaping", which is shaving just the hairs circling the penis, and leaving the rest of the pubes alone.
I shave like my entire body. I am mostly Italian and I have really dark body hair. It is kind of gross but probably because that is what I have grown up being told. When I was in 8th grade I went to a new school and kids made fun of me because I had dark hair on my arms. I ended up bleaching it but it didn't look natural. It looked weird. So my mom helped me attempt to wax it and I ended up getting a huge bruise on my arm from too much wax I guess. I now shave my arms. I don't really like to because I have very sensitive skin and get razor bumps and stuff and it looks weird. Other than that I don't really mind. I don't mind shaving my legs. I usually don't shave them in the winter much anyway. I shave my crotch and this is what bothers me the most. I get infected hairs and stuff they are so painful. I have no idea what to do. I know that Sephora sells a couple different products that are supposed to help prevent that type of stuff but I am not so sure it will work for me. I have really really sensitive skin. My entire body is usually always itchy. Sorry I am ranting. There is really no one else to talk to at the moment about this.
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Your Aspie score: 165 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 33 of 200
You are very likely an Aspie