Thankyou David for the information. I'm not always on the forums so I miss alot with postings. I honestly can't recall Chris ever letting on how desperste he was, but then again, I may have missed it. One thing he did know though, was that he was loved and accepted here. And so will anyone in your family who wants to join us. There just isn't ever enough info on all the needs we all have. But with the WP community pulling our resourses together, there always seems to be more than what you see in your own home town. Many times it's right there, but one agency dosn't always know that another source of help could be right next door. And thats were the members here come in.....they have alot of good info and support that many didn't know was available. Please keep in touch with us, and let us know how you and your family is getting on. My prayers are with you all in this very hard and confusing time.