Sempiternal wrote:
"Oh, no, you don't seem like a person with Aspergers because people with Aspergers don't like to talk and you're talking just fine and you were willing to see me
A very stereotypical response. A counsellor once said she didn't think I had Asperger's because she'd seen men with the condition and I didn't come across like that. ASDs, however, were not her expertise - and to be fair, I wasn't seeing her for that - which is why I chased a diagnosis from a specialist.
People with Asperger's are all different, and there's good reason to believe that girls are underdiagnosed. You might have learned just enough coping skills to mask the condition, which is why you, too, need a specialist.
Sempiternal wrote:
My father doesn't suspect ASD, let alone know anything about it. He just didn't like the way the psychiatrist handled things and made sessions shorter than what we paid for. How do I go about finding a professional who knows about ASD then?
Have you got a local autism or Asperger's society, or a local support group? They might be able to point you in the right direction.
None that I've heard of from where I live. I've heard of some up in San Francisco, but that's an hour drive away.