Delphiki wrote:
Joe90 wrote:
It's not fair - the most cruelest lifelong condition someone can be born with and there will never be a cure for it, so we have to suffer with it instead.
Wow
Delphiki, if you've been around here for a while you know that joe90 is really having a tough time right now--those feelings are valid and it really can be very, very tough to have AS. There are many reasons--prejudice, ostracism, abuse, social isolation, comorbid depression. Those are solvable problems, but that doesn't mean they aren't real problems, and sometimes severe problems.
My perspective on it is that our best approach is to find ways to solve the problems associated with autism, while still accepting the differences that come with being autistic. It is a little like when a new immigrant comes to a different country, and has a problem because he can't speak the new language. So you can solve his problem by giving him language lessons--but, to avoid losing the uniqueness his home culture provides, you have to teach him the new language without telling him that his old language and old culture are unacceptable. Foster integration, community, acceptance; teach people to work together; solve problems rather than trying to eliminate differences. That is the most effective way to help autistic people with autism-related problems.