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20 Dec 2012, 10:18 am

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So how come that in reality autism spectrum conditions are seen as a disorder or defect?

My opinion: Because NT is the norm standard and Aspies therefore the "outcasts".


But it's not just some coincidence. As I have said before on this forum, the norm is what it is for a reason. I think this is pretty self-evident. I think that a lot of confusion could be eliminated if people grasped the way a species is formed and (more to the point) maintained by evolutionary mechanisms.

Human beings have been "designed", so to speak, to work in a certain way. Of course there is variance, but for the most part the human "idea" is pretty narrow. The problem seems to be that people have no problem accepting this in regard to any body part aside from the brain. Only a pedantic blowhard or some sort of activist would deny that humans are "supposed" to have two arms (please mind the quotation marks there) and people who have a different number of arms are not merely members of some random minority group that happens to be the minority for no particular reason aside from there simply being more of the other kind of people. A person who has one arm, for instance, either a) was born a two-armer and lost one, or b) was born with a fairly major part of their body missing. No mother who just gave birth would look at their one-armed baby and think, "Oh, look at that, he's got one arm" the way she might think "Oh, look at that, he's got black hair" or something.

I hate to say it, but our brains aren't terribly more diverse than our legs. There's a pretty narrow definition for what the brain is "supposed" to work like. They're supposed to facilitate our sight, smell, taste, etc. Our speech, movement, balance...you get the idea. And it's supposed to knit all of that stuff into a harmonious subjective experience which allows for the individual to interact with their environment effectively. When one of these things is missing...well, it's missing. It doesn't mean that person is bad or can't have a good life or anything like that.

Autism is a serious disorder. All of this "arbitrary minority" stuff sounds ludicrous when you keep that in mind.


Your analogy is flawed: A major part of the body missing is not equivalent to an internal organ having an atypical mode of operation.

A more apt analogy would perhaps be that of someone born with more than the typical number of fingers and/or toes.

Assuming the extra digit is more or less usable; is having too many fingers a disorder? Or could you legitimately divide people into the sixies and the digitypical?



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20 Dec 2012, 10:31 am

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I can't take credit for what knifegill wrote, but sure, I'll bite. So you do not have very sharp senses then? What were those accommodations your mother did if not for that?

The accomodations consisted of minimising sensory overstimulation that could lead to accumulation of frustrations and meltdowns/tantrums; figuring out the ideal mode of learning for me, wherever conventional education failed; exposing me to the company of people and animals closest to us, like relatives and pets, so that I could develop my social skills; allowing me to pursue my special interests to the fullest, as a means of both recreation and creative expression. Those are the main ones I can think of right now.

I've never experienced super-sensitive skills, although I've heard of others on the spectrum who have them. While I have some mild sensory issues of my own, they mainly manifest as (slightly) negative in my case, with regard to overstimulation. I suppose it's different from person to person.

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Yes, the only negative aspects are created by society. The OP talked about "aspies just want help and speeecial treatment whyyyyY" but the truth is that there are lots and lots of accommodations already in place, but they are invisible as they are geared toward NTs.

It's not just about Asperger syndrome. It's about the entire autistic spectrum. Some autistics experience severe problems in expressing themselves -verbally or non-verbally-, or in the processing of sensory input, or in their motoric skills. Do you think all severe autistics are the result of parents taking an incorrect approach to raising their children from infancy onward- 'the NT way', as you would call it?


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20 Dec 2012, 10:52 am

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Your analogy is flawed: A major part of the body missing is not equivalent to an internal organ having an atypical mode of operation.

A more apt analogy would perhaps be that of someone born with more than the typical number of fingers and/or toes.

Assuming the extra digit is more or less usable; is having too many fingers a disorder? Or could you legitimately divide people into the sixies and the digitypical?


Depends on whether the extra fingers are functional or not. If they can move to the extent of the other five fingers, it isn't a disability. If they're inert, they're not only useless appendages, but also energy-consuming because of the metabolism within their cells. They'd be clunky and in the way and would quite be a handicap.

If they can move, whether they'd be an enhancement or not would depend on whether they'd add to dexterity when compared to a five-fingered hand. There might just as soon be pros as well as cons balancing each other out.


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20 Dec 2012, 10:54 am

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Your analogy is flawed: A major part of the body missing is not equivalent to an internal organ having an atypical mode of operation.

A more apt analogy would perhaps be that of someone born with more than the typical number of fingers and/or toes.

Assuming the extra digit is more or less usable; is having too many fingers a disorder? Or could you legitimately divide people into the sixies and the digitypical?


Depends on whether the extra fingers are functional or not. If they can move to the extent of the other five fingers, it isn't a disability. If they're inert, they're not only useless appendages, but also energy-consuming because of the metabolism within their cells. They'd be clunky and in the way and would quite be a handicap.

If they can move, whether they'd be an enhancement or not would depend on whether they'd add to dexterity when compared to a five-fingered hand. There might just as soon be pros as well as cons balancing each other out.


As I said: "Assuming the extra digit is more or less usable". An inert flesh sock is obviously a problem.



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20 Dec 2012, 11:12 am

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Is Autism/Asperger a defect?


The truth is, no-one knows. Scientists have not even been able to prove the cause so how can it be called a defect. When people with AS are saying it's a difference, they are not necessarily saying that they don't like the stigma of it being called a disability, but may simply be stating logical fact. Therefore they are not necessarily in denial.

It could be evolution in progress. It could be all sorts of things. Until science has the answers, everything is pure conjecture.


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20 Dec 2012, 11:16 am

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As I said: "Assuming the extra digit is more or less usable". An inert flesh sock is obviously a problem.


I had a longer post, but I accidentally CTRL+W'd it.

It's an interesting thought experiment, isn't it? It invokes the question whether or not one is 'supposed' to have 5 fingers. Is one 'supposed' to not be autistic? I was never big on predestination anyway.

I actually dislike the word 'defect' for autism. I prefer 'disorder', but I can't put my finger on why.


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20 Dec 2012, 11:26 am

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As I said: "Assuming the extra digit is more or less usable". An inert flesh sock is obviously a problem.


I had a longer post, but I accidentally CTRL+W'd it.

It's an interesting thought experiment, isn't it? It invokes the question whether or not one is 'supposed' to have 5 fingers. Is one 'supposed' to not be autistic? I was never big on predestination anyway.

I actually dislike the word 'defect' for autism. I prefer 'disorder', but I can't put my finger on why.


I think the bigger problem is in the word 'supposed'.

And probably the word 'defect'.

And all moral judgement implied within both terms.



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20 Dec 2012, 12:33 pm

What about those of us for whom "impairments" mean nothing? I sit here alone. Thank goodness. The last thing I want is to have to talk to people face to face! How am I socially disabled if I don't want to be social in the first place? In this aspect, I am not disabled at all. The thing I am less-able to do is the very thing I wish not to do.

In all fairness, though, I did almost die an alcoholic homeless young adult thanks to being unable to work people. And that was after being over-medicated as a teenager and nearly starving to death. I looked like an anorexic and didn't grow for four years, weighing 82 pounds from the age of 10 to the age of 14. So in some ways, yes, being on the spectrum almost killed me. I should be willing to admit that.

But the box of cool toys is we're born with is hard to ignore!



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20 Dec 2012, 12:38 pm

Cool toys indeed.

I'm sorry to hear about your overmedication and whatnot, tho'; that s**t sucks ass, if you'll pardon the french.


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20 Dec 2012, 12:57 pm

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What about those of us for whom "impairments" mean nothing? I sit here alone. Thank goodness. The last thing I want is to have to talk to people face to face! How am I socially disabled if I don't want to be social in the first place? In this aspect, I am not disabled at all. The thing I am less-able to do is the very thing I wish not to do.

In all fairness, though, I did almost die an alcoholic homeless young adult thanks to being unable to work people. And that was after being over-medicated as a teenager and nearly starving to death. I looked like an anorexic and didn't grow for four years, weighing 82 pounds from the age of 10 to the age of 14. So in some ways, yes, being on the spectrum almost killed me. I should be willing to admit that.

But the box of cool toys is we're born with is hard to ignore!


Yes, I'm very sorry to hear about you being overmedicated, as well- I myself have no first-hand or second-hand experience with medication, I'm unfamiliar with the effects either negative or positive they can have on someone. I can agree with you that there's much ignorance about autism in the world. and there is no justification for the drug regiment you were given, or the damage it caused.


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20 Dec 2012, 1:11 pm

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Is Autism/Asperger a defect?


The truth is, no-one knows. Scientists have not even been able to prove the cause so how can it be called a defect. When people with AS are saying it's a difference, they are not necessarily saying that they don't like the stigma of it being called a disability, but may simply be stating logical fact. Therefore they are not necessarily in denial.

It could be evolution in progress. It could be all sorts of things. Until science has the answers, everything is pure conjecture.


And the science would probably never get the answer, since the answer may be hidden in such a way as science have to dismiss itself to reveal it. It may sure be that enough paradigm shifts change science in such a way that it find what is hidden, that is the job of the paradigm shifts, but today the science is not there yet.

That said, the knowledge is not so hidden as the science, since it does not have any important 'building blocks' as science, and so a full knowledge of autism spectrum disorders seems much more possible than a scientific truth to it.



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20 Dec 2012, 4:10 pm

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Your analogy is flawed: A major part of the body missing is not equivalent to an internal organ having an atypical mode of operation.

A more apt analogy would perhaps be that of someone born with more than the typical number of fingers and/or toes.

Assuming the extra digit is more or less usable; is having too many fingers a disorder? Or could you legitimately divide people into the sixies and the digitypical?


Depends on whether the extra fingers are functional or not. If they can move to the extent of the other five fingers, it isn't a disability. If they're inert, they're not only useless appendages, but also energy-consuming because of the metabolism within their cells. They'd be clunky and in the way and would quite be a handicap.

If they can move, whether they'd be an enhancement or not would depend on whether they'd add to dexterity when compared to a five-fingered hand. There might just as soon be pros as well as cons balancing each other out.


As I said: "Assuming the extra digit is more or less usable". An inert flesh sock is obviously a problem.


These are actually nice analogies. Regarding my opinion, i thought of another analogy. what if NTs were the right handed people and Aspies the left handed people? It's not inherently an impairment but it becomes one if the environment is adapted for right handed people, i.e. right handed scissors and fridge doors. what do people think about these? right handed people are also in the majority and for left and right handed people also differ in terms of brain functionality and which half of the brain is responsible for which activities.



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20 Dec 2012, 4:43 pm

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Williham wrote:
Your analogy is flawed: A major part of the body missing is not equivalent to an internal organ having an atypical mode of operation.

A more apt analogy would perhaps be that of someone born with more than the typical number of fingers and/or toes.

Assuming the extra digit is more or less usable; is having too many fingers a disorder? Or could you legitimately divide people into the sixies and the digitypical?


Depends on whether the extra fingers are functional or not. If they can move to the extent of the other five fingers, it isn't a disability. If they're inert, they're not only useless appendages, but also energy-consuming because of the metabolism within their cells. They'd be clunky and in the way and would quite be a handicap.

If they can move, whether they'd be an enhancement or not would depend on whether they'd add to dexterity when compared to a five-fingered hand. There might just as soon be pros as well as cons balancing each other out.


As I said: "Assuming the extra digit is more or less usable". An inert flesh sock is obviously a problem.


These are actually nice analogies. Regarding my opinion, i thought of another analogy. what if NTs were the right handed people and Aspies the left handed people? It's not inherently an impairment but it becomes one if the environment is adapted for right handed people, i.e. right handed scissors and fridge doors. what do people think about these? right handed people are also in the majority and for left and right handed people also differ in terms of brain functionality and which half of the brain is responsible for which activities.


Still a terrible analogy. Left-handed people suck.


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Williham wrote:
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Williham wrote:
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Williham wrote:
Your analogy is flawed: A major part of the body missing is not equivalent to an internal organ having an atypical mode of operation.

A more apt analogy would perhaps be that of someone born with more than the typical number of fingers and/or toes.

Assuming the extra digit is more or less usable; is having too many fingers a disorder? Or could you legitimately divide people into the sixies and the digitypical?


Depends on whether the extra fingers are functional or not. If they can move to the extent of the other five fingers, it isn't a disability. If they're inert, they're not only useless appendages, but also energy-consuming because of the metabolism within their cells. They'd be clunky and in the way and would quite be a handicap.

If they can move, whether they'd be an enhancement or not would depend on whether they'd add to dexterity when compared to a five-fingered hand. There might just as soon be pros as well as cons balancing each other out.


As I said: "Assuming the extra digit is more or less usable". An inert flesh sock is obviously a problem.


These are actually nice analogies. Regarding my opinion, i thought of another analogy. what if NTs were the right handed people and Aspies the left handed people? It's not inherently an impairment but it becomes one if the environment is adapted for right handed people, i.e. right handed scissors and fridge doors. what do people think about these? right handed people are also in the majority and for left and right handed people also differ in terms of brain functionality and which half of the brain is responsible for which activities.


Still a terrible analogy. Left-handed people suck.


haha :)

why is it terrible?



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Williham wrote:
Your analogy is flawed: A major part of the body missing is not equivalent to an internal organ having an atypical mode of operation.


I'm not quite sure how to respond to this for a few reasons. First, "major body part" and "internal organ" aren't mutually exclusive, rather, they coincide quite frequently. Second, I can only assume your point in making this distinction is something like, "The analogy doesn't work because the brain is not missing in autism, it just works differently." Now, I quite agree that autism isn't a matter of whole brains missing. But you misunderstood the analogy. The "missing" things in autism are systems, faculties, abilities, at times even the physiologically obvious lack of neural structure (missing a corpus collosum, lesion on the frontal lobes, etc.). The comparison to a missing arm is perfectly appropriate. As for the implication that an arm ("major body part" in your odd system) is too different from a brain ("internal organ")...if you are an Aspie, I might remind you that analogies aren't supposed to work on every possible level. The comparison of two very different things is the whole point of analogies. Didn't Aristotle say something to the effect of, a genius for metaphor is higher than any other type of genius? Anyway, my analogy works just fine.

Notice that, rather than responding to the meat of my post, you decide to make some rather irrelevant nit-pick about this analogy. Maybe go back and try the former.

Really, the analogy was the least important part of my post.

If autism is just this quasi-neutral thing...like hair color or having another finger...why is it that autism is one of the words, if not the word that expecting parents fear the most? Oh, wait, you probably think they're misinformed or just plain wrong or something. Like, the world is set up for normal people, it's all relative, etc. etc. If only they could understand that, they'd take a deep breath and move forward with the confidence that their child's autism will be a mostly neutral thing. Right?