Do many Aspies think there are superior to NTs?

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05 Apr 2007, 6:08 am

They aren't inferior.

They do not look at life the same way. I observe a common person and they don't deep think, they don't analyse things, they just chug along and think nothing of it. But hey, in many ways their way of life is better.

Different != inferior.



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05 Apr 2007, 6:14 am

I think most people are idiots. But i would not say i was superior to them.

I used to think that Aspies may not be as stupid as the average NT.
However, after reading many posts on this site i have changed my opinion. Most of the posters around here are also idiots.

But i agree, this does not equate to inferior.



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05 Apr 2007, 2:18 pm

Hazelwudi wrote:
SmallFruitSong wrote:
Hazelwudi wrote:
SmallFruitSong wrote:
Johnnie wrote:
The average NT is brain dead. They just march through life not thinking about nothing,just follow the crowd and would do anything if it is what everyone else does and never think there is anything wrong with it.

Most of them have never had a deep thought in their lives or an origional thought for that matter.
Simple things are a total abstraction to them beyond their comprehension an even if facts are presented to them to support an opposing veiw they still will hold onto their beleif no matter how warpped it is.


^^ That's exactly the attitude I believe the OP was hinting :roll: Sweeping generalisations and the insinuation that most non-ASD people are inferior.


Unfortunately, it's also the truth in many cases.


How is it true in "many cases"? It doesn't make sense to me.

How do you quantify the concept of a "deep thought" or even an "original thought", for instance?


At the very least, something it takes a bit of intelligence to comprehend, not an endless rehash of some celeb's love life or whatever's going on with American Idol these days. At the very least, someone who is an actual individual, rather than being exactly like hundreds of other people I've known. It's just boring.


You get it exactly, they talk about what they saw happen and most have no vision that anything could be any different than what they see. Most people are institutionalised and resist new ideas and change because they have had such a hard time being able to barely function with the current system.

Don't even ask them to consider a new idea or different way of doing things and cause them to have to think. They just watch TV and get out of bed the sametime everyday and go to the same job which they consider hard even after decades of doing it and come home and flop their butts back in front of the TV. Saturday they put gas in the car and buy groceries and over the weekend they march off to some event planned by other people to pretend they have a life and did something.

Just look at the school system, it looks like it did 50 years ago. same general system in place and no chance in hell it's going to change anytime soon.



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05 Apr 2007, 2:21 pm

I feel neither inferior nor superior to anyone.


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14 May 2010, 8:11 pm

We need them just as much as they need us.
If every one where Aspie it would be a dull , placid, introspective world , it would be a bit like Switzerland I would assume. :( / :)

Having lived in Switzerland I don't think I'd want to live in that kind of world, I like a bit of chaos in my life from time to time. 8)

So are Aspies "Superior" no . I suspect their are a few narcissists on this site. Get over yourself people your not that special.



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14 May 2010, 8:29 pm

aussiebloke wrote:
We need them just as much as we need us.
If every one where Aspie it would be a dull , placid, introspective world it be a bit like Switzerland I would assume. :( / :)

Having lived in Switzerland I don't think I'd want to live in that kind of world, I like a bit of chaos in my life from time to time. 8)

So are Aspies "Superior" no . I suspect their are a few narcissists on this site. Get over yourself people your not that special.


You've replied to a thread that's over three years old. But you're right, we're not better than anyone else. I don't understand why some people would think they superior.



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14 May 2010, 9:16 pm

:Johnnie says:

You've replied to a thread that's over three years old

Sorry :oops:

Forgot to check the dates :oops:



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14 May 2010, 9:35 pm

Uh where were you when you saw this thread? Were you in this section checking the very old posts or did you use search and saw this?


No I don' think I am any better than NTs.



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14 May 2010, 10:03 pm

Uh where were you when you saw this thread? Were you in this section checking the very old posts or did you use search and saw this?


It was via Yahoo, I googled "Asperger's smarter than NT 's" or words to that affect . that's how I fond this link.:







www.wrongplanet.net/postp552385.html - 78k -



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14 May 2010, 10:55 pm

kittenfluffies wrote:
I can understand how you'd think that. Honestly I think it's a defense mechanism that a lot of aspies have picked up over time.


this could be it, a way of rationalizing / embracing differences.

Tony Attwood writes about several different coping methods children employ when recognizing they are different than others, and one of them is "god mode" which he understands as a form of denial. you can read about it here (link)


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15 May 2010, 1:05 am

Totally agree with Kittenfluffies also. It probably is a defence.
After years of feeling stupid It feels good to think that in some ways
I do have some gifts, and I can not help wonder just how intelligent
or unintelligent the teachers I had for never picking on the dyslexia
I'am sorry but many teachers sure thought they were supperior to me.
I 'am still fairly newly dxed with dyslexia and Asd still comming to terms
with it.



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15 May 2010, 1:34 am

I am a cat, and cats are better than people at doing cat things.

You ever caught, and killed a mole with your bare "hands"?

Any time the food bowl gets low, Reggie decides everyone else is probably hungry, so he goes out, kills a mole, and leaves it on the mat by the back door for us.

I dispose of them, so I assume he thinks we eat them, which no doubt makes him happy, and he purrs as he munches noisily on the cat food we offer in thanks. I wonder if he thinks maybe we turn moles into cat food?


Either way, I'm better at doing some people things than he is, though he IS better groomed than I am... and I'm better at doing some things like math and science than lots of people, but that just makes me a smart cat with a weird trick, doesn't it?

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15 May 2010, 2:13 am

Zhomper wrote:
I get the idea that this is the case from this place.


No. But I'm quite sure a good number of NT's consider themselves superior to those with AS.



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15 May 2010, 2:25 am

Zhomper wrote:
I get the idea that this is the case from this place.


However, I will say, as many have pointed out, many of them, but certainly not all, do tend to appear to many of us as a bit...herdish.

Personally I don't think this is necessarily a bad thing. Nothing in life is without a price. Everything has it's trade offs and I am more than willing to recognize the gifts and advantages of NT's.

I just find it unfortunate that they are not always so willing...or perhaps so able, to reciprocate.



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15 May 2010, 3:44 am

Do many NTs think that they're superior to aspies?


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15 May 2010, 4:50 am

I don't think many do, but there are some (I am not one of them).
If you get a group of people with a common interest or something similar about them, they will tend to form a mob. "Mob mentality" as they call it, human nature sadly. At school, I always noticed that people tended to hang out according to race or music taste. The Asians stuck together, the goths stuck together, the plastics stuck together and of course, aspies are going to do the same.


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