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29 Oct 2015, 4:33 pm

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Is 18 too late to have some hidden sexuality?


Do you think you might have some hidden sexuality?

No signs of any and I'm past the age it should have developed by so I'm doubtful, but I can't say for certain. If I were to take a guess I'd say no.



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30 Oct 2015, 12:47 pm

I'm like DevilKisses in that I'm grey asexual in that as it pertains to relationships, well that was 15 yrs ago so, in many ways I simply sometimes feel not much sexual. Oh well..


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03 Nov 2015, 4:58 pm

Some of u ppl are not even asexual. U just want to feel special.


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03 Nov 2015, 5:05 pm

Generalizing anybody as 'you people' over a collective disinterest strikes me as pretty special...


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03 Nov 2015, 5:10 pm

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Generalizing anybody as 'you people' over a collective disinterest strikes me as pretty special...

Please use plain English and type that again. How am I to understand that? !


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03 Nov 2015, 6:42 pm

As much as I don't really wanna get involved, what he said was about as proper as English gets, I understood it just fine. :|


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04 Nov 2015, 3:40 am

Whatever people want to do with their lives as far as sexuality is concerned is no concern of mine--except if it harms some one in a real, tangible way (e.g., child molesters).

Asexuality doesn't bother me. I would be upset if the love of my life happens not to want to make love to me--but it's not a mortal sin to be asexual.

I believe one could be cuddly without sexual implications (I feel sexual urges when I cuddle--but I would keep them to myself for a person who doesn't desire sex).



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04 Nov 2015, 9:37 am

I'm asexual in that I am repulsed by sex, and also bisexual, but also attracted to guys, so I'm kind of all over the place.


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04 Nov 2015, 10:00 am

I am not asexual. If anything quite the opposite.


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04 Nov 2015, 11:39 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
(I feel sexual urges when I cuddle--but I would keep them to myself for a person who doesn't desire sex).


Really?! Do most people? Since most people are sexual... what if your hugging friends though?


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04 Nov 2015, 11:40 am

I didn't mean hugs...I meant cuddles LOL

No...I don't feel sexual if I'm hugging someone.....unless she wants me to.



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04 Nov 2015, 11:46 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
I didn't mean hugs...I meant cuddles LOL

No...I don't feel sexual if I'm hugging someone.....unless she wants me to.



Ooh I see lol


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04 Nov 2015, 1:37 pm

I'm asexual but hetero-romantic and very affectionate. I'm currently in a long distance relationship with someone who is the same. I feel extremely lucky as I was hopeless a short time ago.



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04 Nov 2015, 1:46 pm

Wow! Congratulations, marshall!


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04 Nov 2015, 2:10 pm

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I'm asexual but hetero-romantic and very affectionate. I'm currently in a long distance relationship with someone who is the same. I feel extremely lucky as I was hopeless a short time ago.

That sounds a bit like me, I've recently met a really nice guy from the UK who also has Asperger's, and we chat on skype all the time about relationship stuff, the only difference is that we don't really consider ourselves in any sort of relationship, we're just sort of boosting each other's self confidence and learning from each other. We've become fast friends and chat daily. I'm not hetero though, I'm Bi. I only know that from personal preference, I still haven't actually "been with" someone yet. I also feel quite lucky though, some people succumb to that urge at an early age and it can completely change their lives.


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04 Nov 2015, 2:48 pm

Derolis wrote:
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I'm asexual but hetero-romantic and very affectionate. I'm currently in a long distance relationship with someone who is the same. I feel extremely lucky as I was hopeless a short time ago.

That sounds a bit like me, I've recently met a really nice guy from the UK who also has Asperger's, and we chat on skype all the time about relationship stuff, the only difference is that we don't really consider ourselves in any sort of relationship, we're just sort of boosting each other's self confidence and learning from each other. We've become fast friends and chat daily. I'm not hetero though, I'm Bi. I only know that from personal preference, I still haven't actually "been with" someone yet. I also feel quite lucky though, some people succumb to that urge at an early age and it can completely change their lives.

I also have a friend like that but she is not asexual and is in a relationship. She has BPD and I have severe depression, so we just kind of try to support each other through any hard times. We also share opinions on the world at large and agree on a lot. It doesn't go much beyond that.

The other girl I talk to is asexual and is actually interested in marrying me! We talk every single day. She's visiting me for a month over Christmas. I'm really excited about it.