Wondering if I have AS

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Maybe we should have a poll....

whiteskunk wrote:

0_equals_true wrote:

can you prove you were at the boating class?

Now how the heck can I do that? What do you want a pound of flesh? Geeze.


And as far as being a cry baby. How about taking a good long look at yourself next time someone does something to you.

boo hoo
go have another tantrum cry-baby

*INFALLIBLE VOICE OF GOD: Bully!*

well ok.
i dont see how that is relevant.
maybe you want to change your avatar to some KKK members, and call people 'jew boy', see if anyone takes offence.

yeah so if i change my avie to klanmembers and call you subhuman jewboy, i would be in the wrong ?

You said all this after the poster had claimed it was not them.
It is relevant as you said I have no basis for calling you a bully.
I do... all throughout your posts and usually with no provocation. I could pull up more, but I shall not.
ShadesXIII you called an idiot numerous times. I watched it and said nothing. Now you do it again.
Yet, elsewhere, you are perfectly reasonable in your arguments and discussions.
Makes little sense to me. But alas, it isn't my problem. I just feel a little sympathy for the original poster and for those who get called an idiot.

I see no hypocrisy when others have noted your behaviour.
You initiate things.
Others, naturally, take offence.
I do not consider a reference to being a bully an insult as it is not aimed to insult.
It is aimed to point out a fact coming through in your posts.
You call people names directly.
You laugh at people having said less than pleasant things.
Is this not bullying?
I do not see hypocrisy. I see people responding to your barbs and insults in the way people are bound to respond to barbs and insults.

well i am not going to get banned over this.
would be rather ironic would it, if someone spreading racial hatred remains on the site while the person standing up to it gets banned.
thats all i have to say on the matter

Or insulting them, or using foul language (even with astrisks or purposful misspellings) is against out terms of service. So is a flame war. Please moderate yourselves, or I will moderate for you. Calling someone an idiot or swearing at them is an attack on them. Those involved, please moderate yourselves, or I will do it for you. Someone IS watching the forums. We're just trying to stay out of stuff unless it gets really nasty.

And please don't write me with "he did it first, or she did it first." Stop it.

Btdt

Kosmonaut, you act rudely and make inflammatory comments for no real reason. I will give you the benefit of the doubt and assume that you believe that your behaviour is warranted, but really it is not.

If you try and get 'even' or make unnecessary comments with everyone who you perceive is saying something against you, or people who say things you disagree with, then everything progresses negatively. You are a rational individual, I have seen it, so why not do the rational thing? Keep the peace instead of feeding the flames and causing further problems.

If you really must do something, then make it constructive and above the belt. Speaking condescendingly, aggressively etc. etc. is really not needed or justified. You're smarter than this.

Kosmonaut, what you're doing in this thread really isn't appropriate. You've completely hijacked it and wrecked it for the original poster, who's liable to feel hurt and might not get information they want or need as a result.

agen_kolar, please don't take the way Kosmonaut is acting personally. That isn't how people are usually greeted on this site, and I apologize for that!

Someone mentioned that RDOS test-personally it didn't really work for me, and I found the AS and EQ tests from Baron-Cohens more useful. They don't automatically mean you have Asperger's, but they can be an indication you're on the right track in finding out more about it.

To Wolfpup, TheMachine1, and the others who were helpful, thank you for pointing me in the right direction.

For the rest of you, I did not want to go to the doctor without prior talking to others who obviously will know more about AS than I do, and seeing if I may indeed need to go get checked out. Many of you have made this difficult to read through by insulting each other. Yikes!

To Danielismyname, yes, Agen Kolar got a lightsaber through the forehead, and it' didn't hurt. Sadly his movie counterpart got the old lightsaber-in-the-stomach death.

Agen_Kolar, I hope should you decide to go down the path of seeking an official diagnosis, it goes well for you. I also hope you find a safe, supportive community you feel you can become a part of.

I've been feeling less and less comfortable around WP the last little while, and now I've figured out why... this place is just toxic.

Goodbye.