Did people let you get away with being angry in public?

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No. I wasn't even allowed to be angry in private. I wasn't allowed to express angry feelings unless it was something the other person was also angry about.

Instead of telling me "you got mad", they should have told me what they did wrong


Do not tell me my reaction


Sometimes they purposely provoke me

Even using the word "mad" implies the assumption and connotation, that nobody should ever be "mad"


And do not replace "mad" with "upset", angry", or "pisssed off"


No!! !!

"Angry" is a little better, but when you do something wrong, you tell me what you did wrong, apologize the f**k up, fix it and do not do it again


A former "friend" had the nerve to ask me "are you still mad at me?"


That question is so f*****g insulting






She acted like she did not do anything to make me "mad"

And she acted like she had never done anything wrong before in her life


"Did you get mad at Dave when he refused to call you by your boys name?"

In Equal employment opportunity 2012, that is "discrimination". In 2006 it wasn't yet.

There are justified reasons for anger. For example, homophobic, stupid ass hole

Anger is just one of five emotions

There is nothing to "get away with"

Idiots have had the nerve to tell me that "you got mad",. "Upset", "pissed off"

"Mad" has a negative connotation

It's "angry"

And don't tell me, my reaction

Tell me, what you did to cause my reaction

For example, ass holes "disrespected" me

"Disrespectful" is for me to define

So anything I don't like is "disrespectful"







f**k mister redelings

f**k Amy Lee scheel b***h


"Did you get mad when Dave refused to call you by your boys name?"

If it were after 2012 and he was my boss , that would have been "discrimination"


So don't tell me , my reaction





Tell me what you did to cause it


Penises act like they have a moral right to do whatever they want and any response other than passive aggressively tolerance is "you got mad"

Like others, I knew better than to lose my cool in public with my parents. I once got angry at an ex-girlfriend in high school and she told everyone I was a psycho and that she was scared I was going to hit her. None of the girls at school would speak to me for a couple of weeks.

My backstory: I was born with a short fuse. No trauma made me like that, I was just born with a low frustration threshold. You probably have this picture in mind of someone who was incapable of being calm, but I was calm most of the time, I just didn't know any way to express my anger other than publicly breaking down. But I got way too old to get away with getting angry in public. So I learned how to bottle up my emotions, but after some time when I noticed it didn't improve my life, I gave up on doing that and when I first heard of the idea that I didn't constantly have to keep all my feelings inside, I wanted to go back to my old self. However, I'm aware that I do sometimes have to bottle my emotions, and so I can't just go back to my old self, but at the same time, I'm afraid of the threat of living a fake life yet again, which means that every time somebody tells me to be more polite or less blunt or something, I think to myself, "Oh well, I guess it's back to the sunken place yet again. "

They couldn't stop me. Define "get away."

If I "show my temper" in public, I almost always "get away" with it---because no cop comes up to me and tells me to "calm down." I feel pretty embarrassed, though. Usually, what I'm upset about is no major thing at all. Like if I just miss a train, and the next train is 20 minutes away, and it's midnight, I get upset because I have to get up at 6:15 the next morning.

When I was 17, though, I was drumming very loudly on a subway seat----when this cop came up to me and told me to get off the train. He escorted me into a room---where he asked me a couple of questions. Then he told me to "calm down," and sent me on my way.

Depends on who I am around at the moment. I have had a few people give me encouragement to get mad to resolve certain problems and others that focus on scolding me for getting mad when I had every reason imaginable to support my actions.

Lil dipshits are judgmental, manipulative ass holes

They act like they have never done anything wrong before in their lives and " the meaning of life is 'helping people'. "

f**k mister redelings

When someone has the nerve to comment on my appearance (including emotion), intelligence or demeanor, that is annoying and anger is justified

When someone let's their dog off leash, that is illegal and , anger is justified

When someone drives impatiently or recklessly, that is dangerous and, anger is justified


When someone refers to herself as "people" and me as "you", it implies that I can not a person. And she represents people. Condescending. Anger is justified


There is nothing to "get away" with


When someone laughs at me or asks personal questions, that is disrespectful and rude and anger is justified


When someone bangs impatiently on the bathroom door, that is arrogant and anger is justified


When someone has the nerve to say "what" or "huh" like it's the etiquette equivalent of "excuse me", that is calloused and anger is justified




s**t


When someone tries to sell me drugs, if they persist, then anger is justified.


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When someone tells me that I said something I did not say, they need a hearing aid, and anger is justified






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Does that make sense?