Joe90 wrote:
Ha! I'm Asperger's and yet I got my diagnosis when I was 8. And I'm a FEMALE!! !
I've always been angry about receiving a diagnosis in childhood because it makes me feel more severe than what I am.
I didn't have any delays when I was a baby; no speech delays or anything. And I was a very chatty, sociable child. But I had poor behaviour issues and difficulties controlling my emotions, so I was prone to temper tantrums, whinging a lot and crying. I was very hyperactive too. But because I had social anxiety in the classroom, they didn't diagnose me with ADHD because back then everyone thought ADHD meant being loud and obnoxious in the classroom (which is just a stereotype). But my behaviour at home (and social awkwardness at school) was what put me in the Asperger's spotlight.
I wish I wasn't such a brat when I was a child, then I would have been diagnosed in adulthood like everybody else.
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My mom spotted autism in me when I was eight, but chose not to do anything about it. My school just thought I was shy and smart, and that any difficulties I had were linked to my prematurity, for which I had a 504. I was diagnosed at 21 but would have given anything to have received a diagnosis during childhood, because then I could have gotten proper supports to meet my needs, instead of struggling, barely scraping by, and thinking there was something inherently wrong with me for so long. I'm a level 2 though, so I'm more severe than traditional Asperger's. It was only because my mom supported me so much socially (read: did things for me that other kids my age could do for themselves) and because of my academic intellect that I managed as well as I did until I left home at 24. Now my life self-care wise is a bit of a trainwreck.
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"Survival is insufficient" - Seven of Nine
Diagnosed with ASD level 1 on the 10th of April, 2014
Rediagnosed with ASD level 2 on the 4th of May, 2019
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