Joined: 24 Sep 2020 Gender: Female Posts: 557 Location: Los Angeles
08 Dec 2020, 1:44 am
SC5017 wrote:
I never watch television or films, limited in modern fiction, and don't know any popular music after 1980, and not that much before. It is only noticeable to me on Christmas day when I cannot answer any of the questions in the quiz which often occurs in the afternoon. It has never occurred to me I might share this with other aspies. I don't want to fill my head with a load of very uninteresting stuff. I wouldn't be able to stand the noise of pop music or modern films. I am glad I am not the only one - thanks for the question
Definitely not the only one Current day pop music, or for that matter pop music from the mid 90s to present day, rattles and upsets me to the core of my being. Like I'm being assaulted by sound and metaphorically grated by a machine.
Usually due to my clever undercover ways I just smile & nod as if I understand what everyone around me is talking about re: popular culture. (Before backing slowly away...)
Because I mask most excellently.
But I did finally ask my most socially adept but nicest human, What exactly EXACTLY is a MEME? ...& I still only partially get it.
I pretty much get they are usually not puns. Because my family won't show them to me anymore since I "won't get it" & the lengthy explanations I require ruins the meme? Sooo..not puns.
Joined: 12 Feb 2010 Gender: Male Posts: 114,571 Location: the island of defective toy santas
08 Dec 2020, 8:26 pm
Chachi11 wrote:
Usually due to my clever undercover ways I just smile & nod as if I understand what everyone around me is talking about re: popular culture. (Before backing slowly away...) Because I mask most excellently. But I did finally ask my most socially adept but nicest human, What exactly EXACTLY is a MEME? ...& I still only partially get it. I pretty much get they are usually not puns. Because my family won't show them to me anymore since I "won't get it" & the lengthy explanations I require ruins the meme? Sooo..not puns.
a Meme is an idea, behavior, style, or usage that spreads from person to person within a culture. Memes (discrete units of knowledge, gossip, jokes and so on) are to culture what genes are to life.
Joined: 18 Jul 2020 Age: 39 Gender: Male Posts: 942 Location: Brisbane, Australia
09 Dec 2020, 7:31 pm
Pepe wrote:
adromedanblackhole wrote:
I deplore pop culture for the mind numbing, soul draining vacuous waste that it is. There are objective, science backed explanations for this as it pertains to what is called pop "music." https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-ne ... e-8173368/ It is a repetitive machine that the masses seemingly unwittingly can't tire themselves of already.
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So what this study is saying is that your parents are right, music just isn’t what it used to be.
Hurray for my side!
adromedanblackhole wrote:
However... Were I a baby boomer I can all but guarantee I would have been OBSESSED with the popular music and culture of the British Invasion until roughly the age of Glam Rock - 1965-1976 roughly, best years were 1967-1973
I missed out on all the fun of my youth, during the 70s and 80s. I was too busy with dealing with abject confusion, depression, suicidal thoughts, and fending off gang stalkers. I only started to appreciate the music back then, about a decade ago. Better late than never, eh?
Joined: 18 Jul 2020 Age: 39 Gender: Male Posts: 942 Location: Brisbane, Australia
09 Dec 2020, 7:36 pm
auntblabby wrote:
Chachi11 wrote:
Usually due to my clever undercover ways I just smile & nod as if I understand what everyone around me is talking about re: popular culture. (Before backing slowly away...) Because I mask most excellently. But I did finally ask my most socially adept but nicest human, What exactly EXACTLY is a MEME? ...& I still only partially get it. I pretty much get they are usually not puns. Because my family won't show them to me anymore since I "won't get it" & the lengthy explanations I require ruins the meme? Sooo..not puns.
a Meme is an idea, behavior, style, or usage that spreads from person to person within a culture. Memes (discrete units of knowledge, gossip, jokes and so on) are to culture what genes are to life.
When I was homeless on the street, I used to spend a considerable amount of time in public library's - it's where I learnt (apart from shopping centres) is used to charge up ones mobile phone, power backups, etc. plus it was cool inside and didn't bring the same stare from others who realised your misfortune but couldn't relate to it, the stare of disgust is ingrained in my mind. anyhow i found a book on the history of the MEME and it was rather interesting, I was suprised to find I wasn't in it.
Joined: 26 Aug 2010 Age: 69 Gender: Male Posts: 35,189 Location: temperate zone
09 Dec 2020, 7:43 pm
kitesandtrainsandcats wrote:
Dear_one wrote:
However, I can tell you that Lois Flagston, of Hi and Lois, is the sister of Beetle Bailey.
All these decades and I missed that! Dad was Navy, a couple uncles were Army, my brother is now Retired Army, and my nephews are Army, so of course we had to read Beetle Bailey!
That IS...deep trivia.
I havent thought about Beetle Baily in decades. But I read it when I was a kid, and Hi and Lois. But I never knew about hat cross comic strip kinship tie. You learn sumpin everyday!
Joined: 4 May 2008 Gender: Male Posts: 48 Location: Southern California
20 Dec 2020, 1:31 pm
I don’t watch TV, movies or listen to top 40 music, so i definitely find myself out of touch in gatherings where these topics seem to be the way people connect and use as a basis for conversations.
I do tend to watch too much YouTube, so I do learn some aspects of pop culture through that medium.
I used to be the same way. I was clueless about pop culture and it wasn't until I was 16-18 years old I started to pick up the odd issue of People or Us Weekly to find out what celebrities people were talking about. I also started listening more closely to the top 40 radio songs on the radio. Now with social media, it's a lot easier. I just check what's trending in entertainment on Twitter quickly and scan through pop culture articles on Facebook.
I have always had really niche interests. But once I started to analyze pop culture I realized it wasn't all bad. My weakest area (and still is) pop music. But since I'm over 21 I don't think that matters too much. I also tend to read pop culture trends from a analytical perspective, looking for consistence and seeing how certain popular movies, music, tv shows etc... reflect media and lifestyle.
I think it's great to have niche interests and if pop culture is something you really want to learn about I say go for it. But if it really doesn't interest you and its something you really dislike don't waste your time forcing yourself to like it.