20 Dec 2020, 5:44 pm
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20 Dec 2020, 5:45 pm
Rexi wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Rexi wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Rexi wrote:
madbutnotmad wrote:
yere after kissing her ass for a few days let alone weeks, any thing gets boring.
Hard to tell when you have gone without for even a few weeks, but tell you, when you have it on tap,
you wish you had vodka or champagne rather than water.... especially if the tap started to verbally abuse you and expect all sorts of crazy BS out of you.
anyway buts are buts, come in all shapes and sizes, and if that was all it was, then sure, life would be easy.
However, buts are connected to complex and sometimes over complex beings, that are more than enough to make any one go mad!! ! !
Rule of thumb....
If the but is big and connected to the best human you have ever met, hooray! then perhaps you can make a go of things....
however, if the same but is connected to the biggest contrary nob who constantly complains about the pea under her pillow, then, just perhaps the but isn't worth the hassle that your getting....
the simple lesson in life is....
not all buts are equal...
some buts really are worth more than others...
choose wisely my friends...
Hard to tell when you have gone without for even a few weeks, but tell you, when you have it on tap,
you wish you had vodka or champagne rather than water.... especially if the tap started to verbally abuse you and expect all sorts of crazy BS out of you.
anyway buts are buts, come in all shapes and sizes, and if that was all it was, then sure, life would be easy.
However, buts are connected to complex and sometimes over complex beings, that are more than enough to make any one go mad!! ! !
Rule of thumb....
If the but is big and connected to the best human you have ever met, hooray! then perhaps you can make a go of things....
however, if the same but is connected to the biggest contrary nob who constantly complains about the pea under her pillow, then, just perhaps the but isn't worth the hassle that your getting....
the simple lesson in life is....
not all buts are equal...
some buts really are worth more than others...
choose wisely my friends...
Low maintenance big butts over big butts that are high maintenance.
I would lie if I said Im low main, but I also give more than everyone I met. I'm a little codependent.
Some people like clingy.
It's less ambiguous.
Everybody who said they do, and that they are, didn't last my clingy, even if I played cool to extreme.
I tend to soothe ppl too much and be too honest and open book. People need anxiety to feel attracted. Instinct to procreate in war times.
I dunno, usually after several years I still appreciate it. I feel enough anxiety all the time I that I appreciate stability in that context.
That didn't work for my super anxious ex. He would commonly experience 8 out of 10 anxiety, just normal life.
I'm sorry that's how that played out for you guys. Might there be more to it? In my experience there's rarely a single thing that makes things no longer work.
20 Dec 2020, 5:50 pm
Rexi
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20 Dec 2020, 5:54 pm
funeralxempire wrote:
Rexi wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Rexi wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Rexi wrote:
madbutnotmad wrote:
yere after kissing her ass for a few days let alone weeks, any thing gets boring.
Hard to tell when you have gone without for even a few weeks, but tell you, when you have it on tap,
you wish you had vodka or champagne rather than water.... especially if the tap started to verbally abuse you and expect all sorts of crazy BS out of you.
anyway buts are buts, come in all shapes and sizes, and if that was all it was, then sure, life would be easy.
However, buts are connected to complex and sometimes over complex beings, that are more than enough to make any one go mad!! ! !
Rule of thumb....
If the but is big and connected to the best human you have ever met, hooray! then perhaps you can make a go of things....
however, if the same but is connected to the biggest contrary nob who constantly complains about the pea under her pillow, then, just perhaps the but isn't worth the hassle that your getting....
the simple lesson in life is....
not all buts are equal...
some buts really are worth more than others...
choose wisely my friends...
Hard to tell when you have gone without for even a few weeks, but tell you, when you have it on tap,
you wish you had vodka or champagne rather than water.... especially if the tap started to verbally abuse you and expect all sorts of crazy BS out of you.
anyway buts are buts, come in all shapes and sizes, and if that was all it was, then sure, life would be easy.
However, buts are connected to complex and sometimes over complex beings, that are more than enough to make any one go mad!! ! !
Rule of thumb....
If the but is big and connected to the best human you have ever met, hooray! then perhaps you can make a go of things....
however, if the same but is connected to the biggest contrary nob who constantly complains about the pea under her pillow, then, just perhaps the but isn't worth the hassle that your getting....
the simple lesson in life is....
not all buts are equal...
some buts really are worth more than others...
choose wisely my friends...
Low maintenance big butts over big butts that are high maintenance.
I would lie if I said Im low main, but I also give more than everyone I met. I'm a little codependent.
Some people like clingy.
It's less ambiguous.
Everybody who said they do, and that they are, didn't last my clingy, even if I played cool to extreme.
I tend to soothe ppl too much and be too honest and open book. People need anxiety to feel attracted. Instinct to procreate in war times.
I dunno, usually after several years I still appreciate it. I feel enough anxiety all the time I that I appreciate stability in that context.
That didn't work for my super anxious ex. He would commonly experience 8 out of 10 anxiety, just normal life.
I'm sorry that's how that played out for you guys. Might there be more to it? In my experience there's rarely a single thing that makes things no longer work.
He was bored and mean, then he started flirting with someone else daily in front of me and talk about being together despite me talking to him about it. He would always say everything is alright and to stop worrying, though. He slowly started spending less time with me and less attention, not allowing me to touch him, the same old cold pull away behavior.
This is usually what happens to me. And then if I cry, they say I am seeking attention or trying to control them. So I start looking for ways to leave, friends to help me out. Because after that phase I can't change them and am usually physically suffering in some ways from the stress, either skin lesions, or headaches because of sucking up, or hormone dysbalances with bleeding for months.
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funeralxempire
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20 Dec 2020, 5:56 pm
Rexi wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Rexi wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Rexi wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Rexi wrote:
madbutnotmad wrote:
yere after kissing her ass for a few days let alone weeks, any thing gets boring.
Hard to tell when you have gone without for even a few weeks, but tell you, when you have it on tap,
you wish you had vodka or champagne rather than water.... especially if the tap started to verbally abuse you and expect all sorts of crazy BS out of you.
anyway buts are buts, come in all shapes and sizes, and if that was all it was, then sure, life would be easy.
However, buts are connected to complex and sometimes over complex beings, that are more than enough to make any one go mad!! ! !
Rule of thumb....
If the but is big and connected to the best human you have ever met, hooray! then perhaps you can make a go of things....
however, if the same but is connected to the biggest contrary nob who constantly complains about the pea under her pillow, then, just perhaps the but isn't worth the hassle that your getting....
the simple lesson in life is....
not all buts are equal...
some buts really are worth more than others...
choose wisely my friends...
Hard to tell when you have gone without for even a few weeks, but tell you, when you have it on tap,
you wish you had vodka or champagne rather than water.... especially if the tap started to verbally abuse you and expect all sorts of crazy BS out of you.
anyway buts are buts, come in all shapes and sizes, and if that was all it was, then sure, life would be easy.
However, buts are connected to complex and sometimes over complex beings, that are more than enough to make any one go mad!! ! !
Rule of thumb....
If the but is big and connected to the best human you have ever met, hooray! then perhaps you can make a go of things....
however, if the same but is connected to the biggest contrary nob who constantly complains about the pea under her pillow, then, just perhaps the but isn't worth the hassle that your getting....
the simple lesson in life is....
not all buts are equal...
some buts really are worth more than others...
choose wisely my friends...
Low maintenance big butts over big butts that are high maintenance.
I would lie if I said Im low main, but I also give more than everyone I met. I'm a little codependent.
Some people like clingy.
It's less ambiguous.
Everybody who said they do, and that they are, didn't last my clingy, even if I played cool to extreme.
I tend to soothe ppl too much and be too honest and open book. People need anxiety to feel attracted. Instinct to procreate in war times.
I dunno, usually after several years I still appreciate it. I feel enough anxiety all the time I that I appreciate stability in that context.
That didn't work for my super anxious ex. He would commonly experience 8 out of 10 anxiety, just normal life.
I'm sorry that's how that played out for you guys. Might there be more to it? In my experience there's rarely a single thing that makes things no longer work.
He was bored and mean, then he started flirting with someone else daily in front of me and talk about being together despite me talking to him about it. He would always say everything is alright and to stop worrying, though. He slowly started spending less time with me and less attention, not allowing me to touch him, the same old cold pull away behavior.
This is usually what happens to me. And then if I cry, they say I am seeking attention or trying to control them. So I start looking for ways to leave, friends to help me out.
Ugh, I hate being stuck in the terminal phase. It's like a slowly opening wound that the person inflicting will try to pretend otherwise until it's so obvious you can't not bring it up.
Rexi
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20 Dec 2020, 6:02 pm
funeralxempire wrote:
Rexi wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Rexi wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Rexi wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Rexi wrote:
madbutnotmad wrote:
yere after kissing her ass for a few days let alone weeks, any thing gets boring.
Hard to tell when you have gone without for even a few weeks, but tell you, when you have it on tap,
you wish you had vodka or champagne rather than water.... especially if the tap started to verbally abuse you and expect all sorts of crazy BS out of you.
anyway buts are buts, come in all shapes and sizes, and if that was all it was, then sure, life would be easy.
However, buts are connected to complex and sometimes over complex beings, that are more than enough to make any one go mad!! ! !
Rule of thumb....
If the but is big and connected to the best human you have ever met, hooray! then perhaps you can make a go of things....
however, if the same but is connected to the biggest contrary nob who constantly complains about the pea under her pillow, then, just perhaps the but isn't worth the hassle that your getting....
the simple lesson in life is....
not all buts are equal...
some buts really are worth more than others...
choose wisely my friends...
Hard to tell when you have gone without for even a few weeks, but tell you, when you have it on tap,
you wish you had vodka or champagne rather than water.... especially if the tap started to verbally abuse you and expect all sorts of crazy BS out of you.
anyway buts are buts, come in all shapes and sizes, and if that was all it was, then sure, life would be easy.
However, buts are connected to complex and sometimes over complex beings, that are more than enough to make any one go mad!! ! !
Rule of thumb....
If the but is big and connected to the best human you have ever met, hooray! then perhaps you can make a go of things....
however, if the same but is connected to the biggest contrary nob who constantly complains about the pea under her pillow, then, just perhaps the but isn't worth the hassle that your getting....
the simple lesson in life is....
not all buts are equal...
some buts really are worth more than others...
choose wisely my friends...
Low maintenance big butts over big butts that are high maintenance.
I would lie if I said Im low main, but I also give more than everyone I met. I'm a little codependent.
Some people like clingy.
It's less ambiguous.
Everybody who said they do, and that they are, didn't last my clingy, even if I played cool to extreme.
I tend to soothe ppl too much and be too honest and open book. People need anxiety to feel attracted. Instinct to procreate in war times.
I dunno, usually after several years I still appreciate it. I feel enough anxiety all the time I that I appreciate stability in that context.
That didn't work for my super anxious ex. He would commonly experience 8 out of 10 anxiety, just normal life.
I'm sorry that's how that played out for you guys. Might there be more to it? In my experience there's rarely a single thing that makes things no longer work.
He was bored and mean, then he started flirting with someone else daily in front of me and talk about being together despite me talking to him about it. He would always say everything is alright and to stop worrying, though. He slowly started spending less time with me and less attention, not allowing me to touch him, the same old cold pull away behavior.
This is usually what happens to me. And then if I cry, they say I am seeking attention or trying to control them. So I start looking for ways to leave, friends to help me out.
Ugh, I hate being stuck in the terminal phase. It's like a slowly opening wound that the person inflicting will try to pretend otherwise until it's so obvious you can't not bring it up.
The phase sucks because it usually happens from 1 month to 4. The rest is just hard work and excessive stress to bring it back and them claiming they try but denying giving time to me without distractions, then start complaining about what happens with the others. Just will not offer any intimacy, rr un from it. Want us and even say they want me to be like a friend. Really humiliating and daring towatds a partner. And I am just too nice but that isn't ok either. I wouldn't want to hurt them in any shape.
Love is a choice. They don't want to be with me anymore and eventually say it in some way or another. They are trying to keep me around though. Figuring how they feel is a long confusing painful process. I have to confront them for their behavior and pay harsh punishments and abuse for it until I get the truth.
Last edited by Rexi on 20 Dec 2020, 6:16 pm, edited 1 time in total.
20 Dec 2020, 6:14 pm
Rexi wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Rexi wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Rexi wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Rexi wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Rexi wrote:
madbutnotmad wrote:
yere after kissing her ass for a few days let alone weeks, any thing gets boring.
Hard to tell when you have gone without for even a few weeks, but tell you, when you have it on tap,
you wish you had vodka or champagne rather than water.... especially if the tap started to verbally abuse you and expect all sorts of crazy BS out of you.
anyway buts are buts, come in all shapes and sizes, and if that was all it was, then sure, life would be easy.
However, buts are connected to complex and sometimes over complex beings, that are more than enough to make any one go mad!! ! !
Rule of thumb....
If the but is big and connected to the best human you have ever met, hooray! then perhaps you can make a go of things....
however, if the same but is connected to the biggest contrary nob who constantly complains about the pea under her pillow, then, just perhaps the but isn't worth the hassle that your getting....
the simple lesson in life is....
not all buts are equal...
some buts really are worth more than others...
choose wisely my friends...
Hard to tell when you have gone without for even a few weeks, but tell you, when you have it on tap,
you wish you had vodka or champagne rather than water.... especially if the tap started to verbally abuse you and expect all sorts of crazy BS out of you.
anyway buts are buts, come in all shapes and sizes, and if that was all it was, then sure, life would be easy.
However, buts are connected to complex and sometimes over complex beings, that are more than enough to make any one go mad!! ! !
Rule of thumb....
If the but is big and connected to the best human you have ever met, hooray! then perhaps you can make a go of things....
however, if the same but is connected to the biggest contrary nob who constantly complains about the pea under her pillow, then, just perhaps the but isn't worth the hassle that your getting....
the simple lesson in life is....
not all buts are equal...
some buts really are worth more than others...
choose wisely my friends...
Low maintenance big butts over big butts that are high maintenance.
I would lie if I said Im low main, but I also give more than everyone I met. I'm a little codependent.
Some people like clingy.
It's less ambiguous.
Everybody who said they do, and that they are, didn't last my clingy, even if I played cool to extreme.
I tend to soothe ppl too much and be too honest and open book. People need anxiety to feel attracted. Instinct to procreate in war times.
I dunno, usually after several years I still appreciate it. I feel enough anxiety all the time I that I appreciate stability in that context.
That didn't work for my super anxious ex. He would commonly experience 8 out of 10 anxiety, just normal life.
I'm sorry that's how that played out for you guys. Might there be more to it? In my experience there's rarely a single thing that makes things no longer work.
He was bored and mean, then he started flirting with someone else daily in front of me and talk about being together despite me talking to him about it. He would always say everything is alright and to stop worrying, though. He slowly started spending less time with me and less attention, not allowing me to touch him, the same old cold pull away behavior.
This is usually what happens to me. And then if I cry, they say I am seeking attention or trying to control them. So I start looking for ways to leave, friends to help me out.
Ugh, I hate being stuck in the terminal phase. It's like a slowly opening wound that the person inflicting will try to pretend otherwise until it's so obvious you can't not bring it up.
The phase sucks because it usually happens from 1 month to 4. The rest is just hard work and excessive stress to bring it back and them claiming they try but denying giving time to me without distractions, then start complaining about what happens with the others. Just will not offer any intimacy, rr un from it. Want us and even say they want me to be like a friend. Really humiliating and daring towatds a partner. And I am just too nice but that isn't ok either. I wouldn't want to hurt them in any shape.
Love is a choice. They don't want to be with me anymore and eventually say it in some way or another. They are trying to keep me around though. Figuring how they feel is a long confusing painful process. I have to challenge them and pay for it until I get the truth.
Is the problem the type of people you choose to be in a relationship with?
Do they have common traits?
Are they more extroverted than introverted, as an example?
Rexi
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20 Dec 2020, 6:23 pm
Pepe wrote:
Rexi wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Rexi wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Rexi wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Rexi wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Rexi wrote:
madbutnotmad wrote:
yere after kissing her ass for a few days let alone weeks, any thing gets boring.
Hard to tell when you have gone without for even a few weeks, but tell you, when you have it on tap,
you wish you had vodka or champagne rather than water.... especially if the tap started to verbally abuse you and expect all sorts of crazy BS out of you.
anyway buts are buts, come in all shapes and sizes, and if that was all it was, then sure, life would be easy.
However, buts are connected to complex and sometimes over complex beings, that are more than enough to make any one go mad!! ! !
Rule of thumb....
If the but is big and connected to the best human you have ever met, hooray! then perhaps you can make a go of things....
however, if the same but is connected to the biggest contrary nob who constantly complains about the pea under her pillow, then, just perhaps the but isn't worth the hassle that your getting....
the simple lesson in life is....
not all buts are equal...
some buts really are worth more than others...
choose wisely my friends...
Hard to tell when you have gone without for even a few weeks, but tell you, when you have it on tap,
you wish you had vodka or champagne rather than water.... especially if the tap started to verbally abuse you and expect all sorts of crazy BS out of you.
anyway buts are buts, come in all shapes and sizes, and if that was all it was, then sure, life would be easy.
However, buts are connected to complex and sometimes over complex beings, that are more than enough to make any one go mad!! ! !
Rule of thumb....
If the but is big and connected to the best human you have ever met, hooray! then perhaps you can make a go of things....
however, if the same but is connected to the biggest contrary nob who constantly complains about the pea under her pillow, then, just perhaps the but isn't worth the hassle that your getting....
the simple lesson in life is....
not all buts are equal...
some buts really are worth more than others...
choose wisely my friends...
Low maintenance big butts over big butts that are high maintenance.
I would lie if I said Im low main, but I also give more than everyone I met. I'm a little codependent.
Some people like clingy.
It's less ambiguous.
Everybody who said they do, and that they are, didn't last my clingy, even if I played cool to extreme.
I tend to soothe ppl too much and be too honest and open book. People need anxiety to feel attracted. Instinct to procreate in war times.
I dunno, usually after several years I still appreciate it. I feel enough anxiety all the time I that I appreciate stability in that context.
That didn't work for my super anxious ex. He would commonly experience 8 out of 10 anxiety, just normal life.
I'm sorry that's how that played out for you guys. Might there be more to it? In my experience there's rarely a single thing that makes things no longer work.
He was bored and mean, then he started flirting with someone else daily in front of me and talk about being together despite me talking to him about it. He would always say everything is alright and to stop worrying, though. He slowly started spending less time with me and less attention, not allowing me to touch him, the same old cold pull away behavior.
This is usually what happens to me. And then if I cry, they say I am seeking attention or trying to control them. So I start looking for ways to leave, friends to help me out.
Ugh, I hate being stuck in the terminal phase. It's like a slowly opening wound that the person inflicting will try to pretend otherwise until it's so obvious you can't not bring it up.
The phase sucks because it usually happens from 1 month to 4. The rest is just hard work and excessive stress to bring it back and them claiming they try but denying giving time to me without distractions, then start complaining about what happens with the others. Just will not offer any intimacy, rr un from it. Want us and even say they want me to be like a friend. Really humiliating and daring towatds a partner. And I am just too nice but that isn't ok either. I wouldn't want to hurt them in any shape.
Love is a choice. They don't want to be with me anymore and eventually say it in some way or another. They are trying to keep me around though. Figuring how they feel is a long confusing painful process. I have to challenge them and pay for it until I get the truth.
Is the problem the type of people you choose to be in a relationship with?
Do they have common traits?
Are they more extroverted than introverted, as an example?
I have chosen warm seeming people more often but not always. Sometimes gutty people, but not always, sometimes sweet and nice people. Sometimes extreme brainiacs, I admit that mistake. I like to avoid what I had and think was problematic. And I like to vary it up.
I have also chosen ones I wasn't attracted to, but I trusted because we seemed understanding of each other.
However things are never as they seem. In a relationship especially after puppy love fades, people are very different.
Many people also lie about how they are
20 Dec 2020, 6:25 pm
y-pod wrote:
Oh I always tell people their butts look big, unless they're seriously underweight. 
Big butts are awesome, very good to sit on.
Of course I usually don't intend to "give the right answers". I like challenging people verbally and get quite stoked if they argue back. From my experience people already know (or think they know) if they have big butts or not. Nothing I say would change their personal opinion anyway. I've told my husband everyday in the last 20 years that he's not fat, and he still feels fat.
Big butts are awesome, very good to sit on. Of course I usually don't intend to "give the right answers". I like challenging people verbally and get quite stoked if they argue back.
From my experience people already know (or think they know) if they have big butts or not. Nothing I say would change their personal opinion anyway. I've told my husband everyday in the last 20 years that he's not fat, and he still feels fat.Some clothes look better than others.
The question is posed to determine if the style suits.
Well, it should.
A GF of mine had a big butt, but it was very shapely and was a turn on.
Butt, it didn't look good in corduroy, whereas it was super-sexy in jeans.
20 Dec 2020, 6:29 pm
Rexi wrote:
I have chosen warm seeming people more often but not always. Sometimes gutty people, but not always, sometimes sweet and nice people. Sometimes extreme brainiacs, I admit that mistake. I like to avoid what I had and think was problematic. And I like to vary it up.
I have also chosen ones I wasn't attracted to, but I trusted because we seemed understanding of each other.
However things are never as they seem. In a relationship especially after puppy love fades, people are very different.
Many people also lie about how they are
I have also chosen ones I wasn't attracted to, but I trusted because we seemed understanding of each other.
However things are never as they seem. In a relationship especially after puppy love fades, people are very different.
Many people also lie about how they are
Off Topic
It's a mystery.
You seem to be adorable.
Well, at least you don't have problems finding people.
You just need a way of keeping them.
Perhaps you need to be less clingy?
You seem to be adorable.
Well, at least you don't have problems finding people.
You just need a way of keeping them.
Perhaps you need to be less clingy?
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20 Dec 2020, 6:33 pm
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20 Dec 2020, 6:36 pm
Pepe wrote:
Rexi wrote:
I have chosen warm seeming people more often but not always. Sometimes gutty people, but not always, sometimes sweet and nice people. Sometimes extreme brainiacs, I admit that mistake. I like to avoid what I had and think was problematic. And I like to vary it up.
I have also chosen ones I wasn't attracted to, but I trusted because we seemed understanding of each other.
However things are never as they seem. In a relationship especially after puppy love fades, people are very different.
Many people also lie about how they are
I have also chosen ones I wasn't attracted to, but I trusted because we seemed understanding of each other.
However things are never as they seem. In a relationship especially after puppy love fades, people are very different.
Many people also lie about how they are
Off Topic
It's a mystery.
You seem to be adorable.
Well, at least you don't have problems finding people.
You just need a way of keeping them.
Perhaps you need to be less clingy?
You seem to be adorable.
Well, at least you don't have problems finding people.
You just need a way of keeping them.
Perhaps you need to be less clingy?
I don't need a way of keeping them, but I can use help in dumping them.
you honestly think you can keep someone who doesn't want you? Well I can, but I don't want to
I have played cool all my life, but it isn't healthy nor helpful. I have hungered myself from affection even unnecessarily many years
The healthier alternative is to forget them as soon as they forget me and it seems pointless and hard to actually get off the addiction and move on so if they ever decide to return to get attached again
Like they say, one needs to focus on the ones who give back. Many people will come into our lives, talk big and end up being inconsistent and fade out. Chasing after them and putting in effort will not bring them back, will make them feel they are right to think they feel nothing towards you. If they start emotionally investing in someone new you gotta see the fish and start dating too.
It just seems stupid, like mind games. But it's better than being a fool
Besides rekindling with a partner who claims to be in love with you and to do anything to have you back has proven not healthy and doesn't fix anything. Just another lie
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20 Dec 2020, 6:48 pm
Pepe wrote:
y-pod wrote:
Oh I always tell people their butts look big, unless they're seriously underweight. Big butts are awesome, very good to sit on.
Of course I usually don't intend to "give the right answers". I like challenging people verbally and get quite stoked if they argue back. From my experience people already know (or think they know) if they have big butts or not. Nothing I say would change their personal opinion anyway. I've told my husband everyday in the last 20 years that he's not fat, and he still feels fat.
Big butts are awesome, very good to sit on. Of course I usually don't intend to "give the right answers". I like challenging people verbally and get quite stoked if they argue back.
From my experience people already know (or think they know) if they have big butts or not. Nothing I say would change their personal opinion anyway. I've told my husband everyday in the last 20 years that he's not fat, and he still feels fat.Some clothes look better than others.
The question is posed to determine if the style suits.
Well, it should.
A GF of mine had a big butt, but it was very shapely and was a turn on.
Butt, it didn't look good in corduroy, whereas it was super-sexy in jeans.
then again there is that one guy who has a fetish for big butts in corduroy. Never trust opinion xD
20 Dec 2020, 7:03 pm
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