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2ukenkerl
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26 Oct 2007, 2:02 pm

Simmyymmis wrote:
Your not bothering to actually engage with or answer any of the questions I posed, or seriously discuss or challenge any of the issues raised, suggests your only motivation for posting in this thread is to rather immaturely cause trouble and vent your issues and frustrations onto other people.

I suppose the enlightened position would be to hope that, regardless, such interactions help you with your issues. I rather doubt that would be the case though :roll:


I DID answer the questions! YOU didn't! "Cause trouble"!? HOW? NOPE! But on such an immature level as you have expressed, if it would really be seen by YOU as troublesome, I would be happy none the less. And I am certainly not venting. And WHAT frustrations?

BTW Please don't try to read into my capitalizing, etc.. I think everyone here knows that I just do that.

And you wouldn't know anything about enlightened issues if they blew everything you owned up. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: 8O :roll:



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26 Oct 2007, 3:44 pm

Try to get him to understand that it doesn't, under any circumstances whatsoever, make the slightest modicum of sense not to pursue desirable outcomes for the future. Even if he were correct in reasoning that gay Aspies are less likely to "succeed," it would be no more rational than it would be for an average person not to pursue "success" with vigor and self-confidence. To set oneself up for failure simply because one expects failure is both unsane and nonsensical.

Essentially, tell him to stop being stupid.



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26 Oct 2007, 3:54 pm

Griff wrote:
Try to get him to understand that it doesn't, under any circumstances whatsoever, make the slightest modicum of sense not to pursue desirable outcomes for the future. Even if he were correct in reasoning that gay Aspies are less likely to "succeed," it would be no more rational than it would be for an average person not to pursue "success" with vigor and self-confidence. To set oneself up for failure simply because one expects failure is both unsane and nonsensical.

Essentially, tell him to stop being stupid.


Griff is right. One thing about it. Homosexuals DO have support organizations, networking, and laws to protect them that most aspies don't. AND, if he isn't obviously homosexual, I don't see how it could hurt him. BTW That isn't meant as an insult or opinion. It is FACT that some won't hire you or do business with you if you are homosexual. Of course, the reverse is true as well. It isn't like they are going to have you followed though.

I was so busy arguing with $%^&*& that I didn't bother to answer this question!



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26 Oct 2007, 4:17 pm

2ukenkerl wrote:
I DID answer the questions!


No. You didn't. Do you need me to cut and paste them all again in another post for you?



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26 Oct 2007, 6:01 pm

I'm Bi-Sexual...

I like girls and guys, I think there are 2 spectrums, one for autism and another for sexuality. sexuality is also not always fixed, even in the same person.

Sexuality is SO complicated.

I do agree that I am VERY comfortable in the Gay community! I love my gays!

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26 Oct 2007, 8:46 pm

I firmly believe if someone turns gay. they were already bisexual or gay, because sexuality is determined by nature, not nurture.