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22 Nov 2007, 2:29 pm

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That's why I said I would have been fine if Spades had said that. I just dislike being called a ret*d, and for those who don't, I suppose I feel a little sorry for them, because they've obviously listened to those people who've told them that they'll never live a normal life.


ret*d and socially ret*d are basically the same thing. Who cares what brain power we have? For 9 out of 10 our higher brain power is useless in this world. For most of us, its whole lot of nothing . Social skills are the most important thing.


Perhaps for you, but not everyone shares your pessimistic and self-demeaning outlook.


Its not pessimistic or self-demeaning it is the how it is.
It is judgement that destroys us.


It may be, for some of you, but it doesn't change the fact that it IS pessimistic, and it IS self-demeaning, and that many of you could do with a nicer outlook on life.


please explain your reasoning. Using CAPS does not change anything.
What may be a 'nicer' outlook for you could be hell for others.



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22 Nov 2007, 2:30 pm

emo000 wrote:
cruxdust wrote:
emo000 wrote:
cruxdust wrote:
InSpades wrote:
cruxdust wrote:
That's why I said I would have been fine if Spades had said that. I just dislike being called a ret*d, and for those who don't, I suppose I feel a little sorry for them, because they've obviously listened to those people who've told them that they'll never live a normal life.


ret*d and socially ret*d are basically the same thing. Who cares what brain power we have? For 9 out of 10 our higher brain power is useless in this world. For most of us, its whole lot of nothing . Social skills are the most important thing.


Perhaps for you, but not everyone shares your pessimistic and self-demeaning outlook.


Its not pessimistic or self-demeaning it is the how it is.
It is judgement that destroys us.


It may be, for some of you, but it doesn't change the fact that it IS pessimistic, and it IS self-demeaning, and that many of you could do with a nicer outlook on life.


please explain your reasoning. Using CAPS does not change anything.
What may be a 'nicer' outlook for you could be hell for others.


Personally, I think many of you are in a hell of your own making.

Treating me like the 'bad guy' isn't going to change that, and remember, it's my opinion. It doesn't necessarily have to be yours, but if you would just try to get your head around it (that doesn't mean adopting it as your own), instead of wailing 'I'm autistic, please explain' at everything, and treating me as if I told you you had to eat your own vomit, I think this discussion would run much more smoothly.



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22 Nov 2007, 2:32 pm

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Hate is everywhere.

It's a human thing (have a look in yourself and see your own hate).


Quoted for truth



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22 Nov 2007, 2:33 pm

cruxdust wrote:
emo000 wrote:
cruxdust wrote:
emo000 wrote:
cruxdust wrote:
InSpades wrote:
cruxdust wrote:
That's why I said I would have been fine if Spades had said that. I just dislike being called a ret*d, and for those who don't, I suppose I feel a little sorry for them, because they've obviously listened to those people who've told them that they'll never live a normal life.


ret*d and socially ret*d are basically the same thing. Who cares what brain power we have? For 9 out of 10 our higher brain power is useless in this world. For most of us, its whole lot of nothing . Social skills are the most important thing.


Perhaps for you, but not everyone shares your pessimistic and self-demeaning outlook.


Its not pessimistic or self-demeaning it is the how it is.
It is judgement that destroys us.


It may be, for some of you, but it doesn't change the fact that it IS pessimistic, and it IS self-demeaning, and that many of you could do with a nicer outlook on life.


please explain your reasoning. Using CAPS does not change anything.
What may be a 'nicer' outlook for you could be hell for others.


Personally, I think many of you are in a hell of your own making.


im sure of it



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22 Nov 2007, 2:37 pm

Most NT people don't like people to be different, and if you are, you are a perceived threat, or you disrupt their view of the world/society. Something along those lines.



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22 Nov 2007, 3:20 pm

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It's not "our fault" that they feel resentment, discomfort or anger because of the way we are. We don't control of their emotions; they do.


No, of course not. But we fail to uphold our end of the social program. In their eyes, we are seen as defying social conventions. We are the sand in the gears.So like any human being, when things are disruptive, They resent it. and us. At times.



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22 Nov 2007, 3:28 pm

cruxdust wrote:
Treating me like the 'bad guy' isn't going to change that, and remember, it's my opinion. It doesn't necessarily have to be yours, but if you would just try to get your head around it (that doesn't mean adopting it as your own), instead of wailing 'I'm autistic, please explain' at everything, and treating me as if I told you you had to eat your own vomit, I think this discussion would run much more smoothly.


thank you captain obvious. :lol:



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22 Nov 2007, 3:43 pm

My sister is an unusually cruel person and everyone loves her. I can't kill a fly, but everyone hates me. Society has their values all f**ked-up. Even if society loved me, I wouldn't want to be a part of it.


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22 Nov 2007, 3:50 pm

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My sister is an unusually cruel person and everyone loves her. I can't kill a fly, but everyone hates me. Society has their values all f****-up. Even if society loved me, I wouldn't want to be a part of it.


Boo hoo everyone hates me - im going to leave the internet :lol:

emo much ?



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22 Nov 2007, 3:51 pm

emo000 wrote:
Greentea wrote:
My sister is an unusually cruel person and everyone loves her. I can't kill a fly, but everyone hates me. Society has their values all f****-up. Even if society loved me, I wouldn't want to be a part of it.


Boo hoo everyone hates me - im going to leave the internet :lol:

emo much ?


... Says the one with 'emo' in their name. :lol:

What's that got to do with what she said, anyway?



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22 Nov 2007, 3:54 pm

cruxdust wrote:
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Greentea wrote:
My sister is an unusually cruel person and everyone loves her. I can't kill a fly, but everyone hates me. Society has their values all f****-up. Even if society loved me, I wouldn't want to be a part of it.


Boo hoo everyone hates me - im going to leave the internet :lol:

emo much ?


... Says the one with 'emo' in their name. :lol:

What's that got to do with what she said, anyway?


Dont judge a book by its cover.
Its judgement that defeats us ( i think i said that before).

Oh, she just wrote emo nonsense.
"Everyone hates me" - yeah right, i couldnt care less. Nor could 6 billion other people.



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22 Nov 2007, 3:56 pm

emo000 wrote:
cruxdust wrote:
emo000 wrote:
Greentea wrote:
My sister is an unusually cruel person and everyone loves her. I can't kill a fly, but everyone hates me. Society has their values all f****-up. Even if society loved me, I wouldn't want to be a part of it.


Boo hoo everyone hates me - im going to leave the internet :lol:

emo much ?


... Says the one with 'emo' in their name. :lol:

What's that got to do with what she said, anyway?


Dont judge a book by its cover.
Its judgement that defeats us ( i think i said that before).

Oh, she just wrote emo nonsense.
"Everyone hates me" - yeah right, i couldnt care less. Nor could 6 billion other people.


To think you were trying to make ME out to be the bad guy earlier. What you are doing is flaming, and what she was doing was posting a simple comment, not unlike the ones YOU were posting earlier. She neither asked for, nor deserved your poison.



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22 Nov 2007, 3:58 pm

cruxdust wrote:
emo000 wrote:
cruxdust wrote:
emo000 wrote:
Greentea wrote:
My sister is an unusually cruel person and everyone loves her. I can't kill a fly, but everyone hates me. Society has their values all f****-up. Even if society loved me, I wouldn't want to be a part of it.


Boo hoo everyone hates me - im going to leave the internet :lol:

emo much ?


... Says the one with 'emo' in their name. :lol:

What's that got to do with what she said, anyway?


Dont judge a book by its cover.
Its judgement that defeats us ( i think i said that before).

Oh, she just wrote emo nonsense.
"Everyone hates me" - yeah right, i couldnt care less. Nor could 6 billion other people.


To think you were trying to make ME out to be the bad guy earlier. What you are doing is flaming, and what she was doing was posting a simple comment, not unlike the ones YOU were posting earlier. She neither asked for, nor deserved your poison.


go cry about it. ( simple comment)



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22 Nov 2007, 3:59 pm

Hence my earlier point proven that Aspies can be bullies.



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22 Nov 2007, 4:02 pm

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Hence my earlier point proven that Aspies can be bullies.


Nobel prize for you !
I feel really good now, i have bullied little girls on the internet. I feel like a big man :)



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22 Nov 2007, 4:04 pm

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Hence my earlier point proven that Aspies can be bullies.


Nobel prize for you !
I feel really good now, i have bullied little girls on the internet. I feel like a big man :)


Whatever, I think I'm going to avoid a flamewar. I'd advise you to do the same. [/exitstageleft]