Suddenly spacing out in conversations.

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30 Sep 2010, 9:19 am

Anniemaniac wrote:
Do you ever find that when someone's talking to you, randomly and suddenly, you find yourself thinking "I have no idea what you just said" because, for one random moment, your concentration slipped and although the person was still talking, and although you still seemed as if you were listening, you were completely in a daze and have no memory, in fact, you didn't even HEAR what the person said because you dazed out?

This happens to me all the time, alot during important things too. For example, I went to sit an assessment to see if I could get into a science class in college. After the tutor had settled us all down in the room, and out the papers on our desk, he started going though a brief summary with us about how to answer certain questions, how long the paper was, if we had a time limit, what stuff we needed, etc.

I was listening fine one minute, but the next thing I know, I suddenly find myself not having a clue what he said because my mind just kinda... stopped for a few seconds. It doesn't seem like a lot, but because of that, I didn't hear him say "no time limit", so after about 30 minutes, still only half way though, I start panicking thinking "any minute now he's gonna say "5 minutes left", so I rushed my work and consequently, I know I made mistakes...

It's not just conversations either, it happens alot with other things, like college work, I'll be sitting in class doing a sum, and the next thing I know, I'm fighting hard to get my concentration back. It even happens when I'm doing something I enjoy. I just end up doing things automatically. I can be playing a game, space out, but no one knows because I still continue playing as if I have full control of the game, but yet, I'm not actually aware. My mind's temporarily gone for a few seconds.

Anyway, this is alot more drawn out than it was intended to be. To sum it up in two questions; Do you space out often, and do you have any idea what causes it?

I'm asking because I have the interview for college tomorrow and if I make it though, I can't be sitting in class spacing out randomly for no apparent reason, I'll miss important information.


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Preoccupation?
One of the very subtle epilepsies (such as Petit mal/absence/complex partial/TLE, etc.)?
ADHD Inattentive?
Central auditory processing disorder?
Side-effect (concussion)?
http://www.sportsconcussions.org/ ?

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30 Sep 2010, 11:22 am

I only can follow conversations when I silently 'echo' the things the other person is saying. If I don't do that everything turns to gibberish (and I think about how you would have to paint the highlight made by the grease on that person's nose or something like that)
Unless I am dead tired I can keep up that silent echoing - enough to make sure I get the needed information, but it's kind of exhausting. With people I am very close with I can let my guard down a bit because I know it's okay when I said 'Oh sorry, something you said make me follow a different thought and I completely lost track of your conversation; what did you say again?'


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30 Sep 2010, 1:55 pm

Yep, it's hard for me to pay attention to what they are saying. Sometimes, when someone asks a question, I forget the answer, but that's very rare. It happened a couple of times when I took my puppy to get his second set of vaccines at the vet a couple of weeks ago. I walked in, the receptionist asked my puppy's name and suddenly, I couldn't remember it. That was very strange and very rare. I don't know what my deal was that day. I also forgot the question I was going to ask about vaccines and parvo, too, but I quickly remembered a few seconds later. For a second I sat there murmuring "I just forgot what I was going to ask".